Boston

It depends
escalade1964 65 Reviews 504 reads
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First of all, look for ads that say "accurate pics" lol

Back in the day, you never saw pics. You would call and the "booker" would describe her.

Looks are not that important to me so depending on my mood, I would probably go thru with it
as I love the GFE. If she looked like she was on something or not clean, I would have her leave.

There must be a lot of guys who don't really care whether they've been out-and-out lied to, because a lot of ladies seem pretty confident that they can doesn't make a difference what they tell a prospective client, because once the guy actually meets her, he's gonna go ahead with the date no matter what.  Now, I'm not talking about the situation where the donation has already been exchanged, because by that point it's too late and a guy either cuts his losses and leaves or (more likely) tries to make the most of his time.  I'm talking about when you call a lady and flat-out ask her whether it's really her in the ad, and she assures you that it is, and then she shows up at your hotel room looking as much like the girl in the ad as Miley Cyrus looks like George Clooney.  How can she be so sure most guys won't just send her away?  The answer has to be, that most guys won't.  Or what happened to me recently, I asked a girl whether she could be dressed up a little sexily for our appointment, in a skirt and heels, and instead she was wearing jeans and sneakers.  I told her on the phone that I really liked the outfit she was wearing in her ad, and that if she didn't happen to have it with her, that was fine and I'd be glad to schedule a time with her at a later date.  I actually asked her to check her closet, and she responded that she didn't need to, because she knew she had it with her.  So at first she acted as if I'd never made the request, and then she apologized and admitted she'd been mistaken (yeah, right) and apologized, and when I just shook my head and left, she just closed the door behind me.  Meanwhile, I'd wasted almost an hour driving to her place.  I have to assume that most guys in these situations would just shrug it off and fork over the donation despite being blatantly lied to.  So how about it, gentlemen . . . what do you do in the face of an obvious lie?

First of all, look for ads that say "accurate pics" lol

Back in the day, you never saw pics. You would call and the "booker" would describe her.

Looks are not that important to me so depending on my mood, I would probably go thru with it
as I love the GFE. If she looked like she was on something or not clean, I would have her leave.

I totally understand.  If the looks aren't too far from the pics, I get that, because the lady is entitled to her personal privacy, so I'm not nit-picky at all if there's a reasonable divergence between the photo and the gal standing in front of me.  And If I knew beforehand that the lady's performance in the boudoir was going to be hot, hot, hot, I'd also be inclined to mentally shrug and just let it go, even though I felt deceived by her.  But the providers who lie about things like the outfits they've brought with them are ones I'm typically seeing for the very first time (because I don't repeat with bald-faced liars), and so I may not how good the lady is at providing pleasure.  And when I'm in the mood for a particular clothing preference, I'm very specific, so it's not as if I call and say, "Oh, and if you have them, can you please wear a miniskirt and high heels when we meet?"  No, if I happen to be in the mood to enjoy the visuals of a particular outfit, the exchange will go like this:  Me: "I think that red lingerie you're wearing in your ad is very sexy.  Do you have that outfit with you today?"  Her: "I think so."  Me: "Can you please check for me?  Because if you don't have it with you today, maybe you can bring it with you the next time you're in town and I'd love to go ahead and make time to see you then."  Her: "I'm sure it's in my luggage."  Me: "Are you sure? Because I'm going to be driving a long way to see you, and I'll be looking forward to seeing you in that lingerie, and it's no hassle to see you some other time if you don't have it today."  And then typically I show up and we amble over to the bedroom, and when she asks for the donation I gently ask about the lingerie, and that's when at least half the ladies finally fess up and say, "I'm sorry, I was mistaken and I don't have the lingerie with me after all. But we can still have a great time."  It's NOT just the outright lying that turns me off me at that point; after all, Mr. Helmet-Man suffers from no sense of indignation at all, compared to the Big Head.  It's that, if she's going to lie to my face (over the phone and then in person), I feel that I can assume she's either desperate for clients (so she either has no loyal following because her service is so bad, or else she's likely to have overbooked my time, so she's going to rush rush rush me) or else she simply doesn't care at all about the whims, wishes, and preferences of her visitors, in which case (unless her reviews suggest otherwise) she's going to be mechanical or indifferent in bed.  Just like providers wish that all guys would keep the appointments that they make, I think that we should do what we can to encourage providers to keep the promises made by them, too.

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