It needn't be schwartzleder with a corset-like fit, it could be cuero negro or sensual cuir noir,. An underbust push-up I've always found super-hot, the way it squeezes the body as if to force out the boobs. Leotards are fun, too. Loose is nice, too, if it's shiny silk or satin
Guys...when you book an appt with your lady of choice what would you like to see once the door opens. This is based on incall as outcall attire is somewhat deemed by venue and can be limited. Do you like her to dress up heels dress jewelry What type of music do you prefer cadlelit room Are you one to do extended dates...ect
Ladies...tell us how you prefer to look for your gentlemen callers
My preference may change on the time of day of the date. More casual in the morning, sexier by night. It may also depend on what drew me to this lady. Example would be a sexy little black dress with great blond hair. All in all, simplier is better for me. I do like a nice garter and stocking though.
Q: Do you like her to dress up heels dress jewelry? I prefer nice and sexy outfit; show some skin, but not all, so it builds ups desire. No jewelry please, it makes some maneuvers difficult.
Q: What type of music do you prefer candlelit room Music, Instrumental, sexy like jazz or soft rock, no lyrics to avoid distractions. Candle-light or dim-light is better; that mysterious atmosphere really enhances the experience
Q: Are you one to do extended dates... it might be, with the right girl, but never on first time. You'd love to expend extra time with a girl you really click, and I'm good reading people, so I can tell
Years ago I once told a regular that "panties were a necessary evil." From that point on whenever I saw her she was "dressed to the nines" with sexy dress, high heels, stockings with garters and NO panties. Those few extra seconds saved by not having to "yank them off" seemed like an eternity when you are dying to get your tongue in "there" and then your "torpedo" in there. LOL! Sometimes doing it with her fully dressed is a huge turn-on (for me at least).
Seriously though, like for an extended date she should be elegantly dressed with skirt, stockings, heels; soft candle-light and music to set the mood. Definitely some fine wine or champagne; some fruit (e.g.strawberries). The two of you get comfy and eat the strawberries and consume the champagne "the French way." (I don't think I need to elaborate on that).
Skirt/dress, stockings, heels, matching bra/panties or even not matching, just none of that costume stuff, jewelry optional, music and candlelight a nice touch but not necessary.
I prefer the touch of skin, not metal, so no jewelry at all. Clothing depends on the mood. The librarian or businesswoman look. Or just a satin bra and a satin thong. Or perhaps a corset and thong. Or a satin, buttoned blouse and either a skirt or just a thong. Candles are nice, but soft light is okay. Norah Jones-type music is good. Jazzy/bluesy.
I prefer variety so it really depends on the lady and my mood. I can go from leather/latex with rock music to soft satin lingerie with soft music. I prefer that the lady does not have any jewelry on unless she has a variety of piercings. Love to see a woman who has taken some time with her hair.
It needn't be schwartzleder with a corset-like fit, it could be cuero negro or sensual cuir noir,. An underbust push-up I've always found super-hot, the way it squeezes the body as if to force out the boobs. Leotards are fun, too. Loose is nice, too, if it's shiny silk or satin
Like most guys, I'm visually oriented, and probably easy to please. If the lady is wearing a blouse and skirt and heels, hey, I'm happy; if she's wearing a sheer nightie, count me in; any sort of lingerie, yep, that's good too; nekkid or topless . . . well, I'll try not to be too offended, either. But if she's wearing a food-stained sweatshirt and ragged jeans, I know off the bat that she doesn't understand the nature of the service she's providing. If the room is smoky or messy and the bed is disheveled and the lady has got the t.v. on blaringly loud and when we hug she's wearing too much perfume, that's not an auspicious sign. I'm not asking for the lady to be dressed to the nines, but how about a little bit of make-up and at least a nice blouse and jeans? I guess that even though a lady may be right to assume that she won't be wearing the outfit for all that long into the appointment, she should dress as if she understands the basics of male psychology, never mind the basics of first impressions.
You can never make a second FIRST IMPRESSION. I think that when a guy pays a substantial sum for a ladies time he expects the lady to look the part.
I think Anna Vixen set a high-bar example of how to dress for the first visit: She looked like she was ready for a professional photo session. Nice hair and make up, pretty ear rings, Colorfull lingerie w/G-String, high heals and thigh-highs. Perfectly manicured nails and toes, clean breath, a bright smile and a very happy attitude.
On our first date, my current ATF was wearing a bustier, high heals, thigh-highs and no panties. She had very little jewelery and understated make up.... After many sessions with my current ATF, I don't care if she greets me in cotton PJ's, theme-style lingerie, or nothing at all it doesn't matter. To me, she is always a beautiful sight.
But I will say that had my ATF not looked sooo damn good on the first date I may not have been quite as cativated.
Posted By: sweetnicole1
Guys...when you book an appt with your lady of choice what would you like to see once the door opens. This is based on incall as outcall attire is somewhat deemed by venue and can be limited. Do you like her to dress up heels dress jewelry What type of music do you prefer cadlelit room Are you one to do extended dates...ect
Ladies...tell us how you prefer to look for your gentlemen callers
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