I live nowhere near ANY urban area - therefore, I always have to travel to an appointment. I'm also unattached, so scheduling does not involve family issues. Even then, both incall and outcall have their positives and negatives. A lady with an incall prevents me from having to get a room and do an overnight - established ladies are usually discreet enough (as am I, hopefully!) to make security less of an issue than intimacy and comfort. However, I also enjoy hosting a lady at a nice hotel - it lets ME provide security, intimacy and comfort, taking the burden off the lady.
I'm looking for some perspective from both my fellow lady's and gents ... Whats your take on Incall vs. Outcall and what do you prefer?
For those of us that live here incall is preferrred
But why? Is it the lack of upscale indy providers? or a lack of trust?
incall vs outcall has nothing to do with US.
There are plenty of home town respected Indy girls in the Boston area If you were a reg here you'd know that.
The real issue...these guys are married
incall works better for them.
This is a guys point of view.
Yes, parking may be a hassle and getting there to, but if something goes wrong (B & S, pimp or other problems) You can just walk away, No one is going to make a scene in the middle of a hotel.
But if it's at your house and there is a problem, the women will most likely make a scene since you don't want your neighbor to know what you are doing. Which means you will pay her some money just to go away.
I'm sure there are some people how can tell you horror stories about that.
Also if you live in the middle of nowhere, no provider is going to want to drive out to see you.
Or they will want a travel fee, and in the long run, it's cheaper for you to drive to them, then to have them drive to you.
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Hmmm thank you that actually helps me to put it into perspective greatly, I personally would never cause a scene anywhere for sheer embarrassment to myself or just even anyone knowing what I am doing ... I can only imagine the fear that comes along with allowing a stranger into your house, I could never.
Sometimes I just, I feel I am so very naive when it comes to this business (for lack of a better term).
Yes, parking may be a hassle and getting there to, but if something goes wrong (B & S, pimp or other problems) You can just walk away, No one is going to make a scene in the middle of a hotel.
But if it's at your house and there is a problem, the women will most likely make a scene since you don't want your neighbor to know what you are doing. Which means you will pay her some money just to go away.
I'm sure there are some people how can tell you horror stories about that.
Also if you live in the middle of nowhere, no provider is going to want to drive out to see you.
Or they will want a travel fee, and in the long run, it's cheaper for you to drive to them, then to have them drive to you.
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No reason to insult ...
I'm a GRAD student and this is far from a career for me rather this is simply the best way to make loan payments for the time being. I simply cannot risk it doing an incall. To be quite frank, I'm just not into seeing married clients. As a matter of fact that's a key part of my screening processes so if they guys are lying to me that's fine but I will not willingly be a home wrecker as I do have some sense of morality and respect, and it's just a matter of time before the client gets caught up by their wives and I do not want to be in any shape, way or form connected o the backlash and the mess that turns into. Also it's just a matter of my own personal risk, I have entirely to much to lose my career, my dignity and again my career, as I said I would never cause a scene simply because what an embarrassment to myself and how trashy it would be at that.
This is just my opinion but from previous threads it seems to me, you probably have nothing to lose and therefore can afford to take that risk!!!
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girl you are naive by assuming the level of quality ladies who are Bostons locals.
I know you are new to this business and you are naive, there are many woman here who have careers families and so on.
We all have something to lose.
Men prefer incall mainly because they are married. Its easy and fits into their schedules b4 they go home to their wives.
You can choose to see who ever you want, married unmarried what ever its your game...
Yet a whore is a whore is a whore...gettin paid for your time in this business no matter if hes married or not once you've started to charge and have gone pro... we're all playin the same game. Don't kid yourself.
you may want to take a look around at your peers on the Boston scene, lots of talented and upscale women and many you could benefit from knowing in this business as well as in life.
Soon as you can get yourself on the PO board learn about some of these girls...they are a a good contact to have.
Calling yourself a whore is ohh so classy, Self Esteem issues much?
I do not associate myself with women in this business because I learned in the past they are not trust worthy and will stab you in the back while smiling in your face !!!! Again I have a career and family and perhaps I am just different from other providers actually I know full well I am the exception ... seeing as how my email has been full of GENTS complimenting me and telling me that I am a QUALITY provider due to this post I will go ahead and just say that maybe you should question your idea of Quality and Intelligence.
As far as who or what I am about ... I'm not going to continue this and continue to succumb to this catty BS !!!
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You have a great point of view but for those same reasons. Some of us providers feel a lot safer in private homes. No one wants to cause a scene in their own back yard but I understand your point. I just feel safer in a private home and i find it to be more relaxing for me and the client.
I guess for me, I feel safer, more secure and just less likely to have any run in's with LE when I do outcall, screening is much easier as well ...
Incall for me is always a huge risk and I feel like everyone at the hotel knows why I am there, and perhaps that may be a little egocentric on my behalf. I think also incall may be more for providers who see multiple clients per day, where I prefer just one client per day and no more than 3 per week !!!
Now where are the ladies ... looking for another providers perspective ...
Also Gents keep them coming I also appreciate the feedback sooooo much ...
Everyone does know why you are there! I went to a smaller but upscale Cambridge Hotel, got in the elevator, and pressed the button for the floor where my appointment was. A hotel employee who was also in the elevator noticed and said: "Lucky guy." He certainly knew where I was going.
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Incall for me is always a huge risk and I feel like everyone at the hotel knows why I am there, and perhaps that may be a little egocentric on my behalf. I think also incall may be more for providers who see multiple clients per day, where I prefer just one client per day and no more than 3 per week !!!
Now where are the ladies ... looking for another providers perspective ...
Also Gents keep them coming I also appreciate the feedback sooooo much ...
thats a sign that the Lady you are going to see is obvious in her practices. Many of us are not.
Volume is a sure way to get spotted...
Discretion is easy for some of us and difficult for others.
No not at all, she is right you are crazy to think people are that stupid and don't know what you're doing ... You could dress up in Gucci or D&G suit PEOPLE still know why you are knocking on a hotel door period !!! I know I spot other providers all the time and none have been poorly dressed or skanky looking ... People know hotel's know they see it all the time !!! My DL says I live in Boston so why am I staying at a hotel in this state within 50 miles of my home? People know so don't kid yourself ... You will learn
I feel the same way. Outcalls to me are a lot safer and relaxing. I think there are many risks when you do in calls. I find that most clients are a lot less tense when they are in their own homes. Their is always a touch of nervousness when meeting at a hotel, we all are worried about a run in with LE in that situation.
I prefer outcalls, but offering incalls opens you to far more people, especially locals. People in town for conventions/business etc have hotels anyway, but local guys often need incalls. The tricky thing is booking between 12-3, risking eating hotel overhead if you have cancellations, and taking greater risks if you host at home, so I suggest asking the same question on the provider board. No matter WHERE you meet, screen vigilantly and you should be OK.
I will I'm so very new to this whole world I guess and TER can get quite confusing for me. Thanks 
guide on how. I visit incall providers and outcall providers. I have found the selection to be better with incall providers, but there are exceptions.
If you have limited time during the week, you may want to do incall on Saturdays. The problem with incall is that you have immediate overhead costs, if you see 2-3 clients per week, you won't be able to meet your costs.
Precisely my point for me I have a family and life and to be MIA on a Saturday would be out of Character for me ... I'm not NEW to this either been in this game for 4 years now, just don't wish to risk my own safety nor do I wish to abuse my body seeing 2+ people per day multiple times a week, I'd like to Marry and have children one day and I don't wish for my future husband to get a used up loose and more so roast beef looking vag .... Real talk
LOL I actually find this discussion amusing! I have done incall (hotel and my place) and I have done outcall There are RISKS involved in all! I think the best answer is what makes you comfortable! If you are seeing well screened gents, then they should have a bit of experience and IF you are comfortable you will quickly put them at ease.
Now as for your vag lol that is hilarious!!! Talk to your ob/gyn Every girl should Kegal 100 times a day everyday not just for the fun it provides your playmates, but woman are at a big risk for many illnesses related to a loose vag...dropped bladder which causes leaking, a prolapsed uterus (when it literally falls out your vag) and that is just 2 there are many more! Now if you are doing your exercises you will be tight as a drum LOL!
Sex most often will not loosen your vag muscles if you truly enjoy what you are doing, an orgasm should make your muscles contract and should keep everything nice and tight LOL!
Honestly from my medical experience women who are not sexually active are more prone to the above mentioned problems!
Have fun be safe and do what is best for you,but please do not put down the girls who do 6 and more per day, they have a right to do their business as they see fit and reviews will let others know if it makes a difference!
Ciao!
Penny-Nympho
FIRST OF ALL I did not put anyone down ... and anyone who thinks that clearly has some guilt and self-esteem issues that have nothing to do with what my little ass says !!!
I hate to break it to you but KEGALS do not and will never fix roast beef curtains (Vaginoplasti is the only cure) my OBGYN who is at MGH & and teaches at Harvard told me the root cause is SEX and the friction, also the amount of sex and different sizes of those partners ... READ up on it as I have !!!
I enjoy sex, obviously but again Multiple partners in a day is rough on the body and isn't doing anything but hurting your vag PERIOD. Not to mention the stress of it ...
For me it is outcall or no call
The only advantage of incall if it isn't the girl in the add you can walk away. Other than that incalls are just to risky. If I see a add and the girl even offers incalls, I keep on looking.
A few factors for me are
Law enforcment
Rip offs, or not who they say they are
many girls who do incall, scedule tons of appoitments each day
The only time I will do a incall if it is a well known agency, or very well reviewed girl
I prefer outcall for a few reason
More likelly to be who she says she is
less likelly to be Law enforcment
outcall girls tend to be more selective, and see fewer clients
It is more relaxed at my place, nicer than any hotel,
the only negative to outcal, if she isn't who she says she is, normally have to give her something to send her on her way
Incall is pretty much the only option for a lot of us. Unless you live alone I can't see how outcall would work.
I don't think my Mrs would approve of outcall!
In a guy's town the only real potential is usually for incall.
Don't have a place to use, and I don't wish to pay for a hotel for one hour of use.
In addition, I prefer suburb vs downtown as well. Hope you find this info useful.
BUT you expect me to pay 250 for a hotel, to see you for an hour so in other words I actually payed you to see me? as I said I don't do multiple appointments per day, so that's not an option!!!! I mean I'm not being rude but ya know the door swings both ways ...
Unless you're willing to offer incalls from your own home, only the high volume providers can make a profit on offering incalls. Like you, many of our girls are very low volume so they only offer outcalls. We have several regular clients who will book hotel rooms just to see our girls who only offer outcalls. So there are clients who are willing to incur those costs for the right lady. They'll often book multiple hours in addition to the cost of the hotel room.
You will lose a lot of clients by not offering incalls, but there are still plenty out there for everyone.
xoxo Kat oxox
Thank you Kat !!!
Then why are you asking? Looks like you can only do outcall. But, you will never have the pleasure of Bennyg unless you do incall!!
And I guess I can live with that 
... the point of the thread was just to hear other people's justifications for wanting either not for me to figure out which is better for me ...
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I offer a little bit of in call and a little bit of outcall. I only accept a few meetings here and there around my other obligations so I try to mix it up a bit. Most gentlemen need in call simply due to the fact that they have spouses or need to escape somewhere while they are with you. I try to plan ahead with my gents so I can host if that works best and at a discreet location that is neutrally located for both of us. It makes things more personal and takes it to another level. Other times outcall is what works best. I try to be flexible. You have to do what works best for you and make sure that you are still making a profit. If this is full time for you, there may be considerations to look at. Take into account your marketing, advertising, in call, and transportation costs. Screening is always extremely important as well as your comfort level.
I'll admit that I enjoy outcalls but I've grown quite accustomed to in calls being the norm.
Sav
In call preferred mostly in a upscale apartment
Do to my remote location in New England I usually travel to the larger metro areas and stay overnight. I schedule extended visits well in advance of my travels. Also, I'm single and overnight trips are simple getaways for fun.
Now see you are the "type of client" I prefer to see ... I just simply cannot take such a risk ... Also for me I'd rather drive an hour away and see a person that I truly believe I will feel comfortable with and the same for him. I find that providers who are not willing to drive to those remote locations won' do so because they figure it takes up 3 hours for a 1 hour appointment and they want multiple calls, I'm simply not that way.
I agree 100%. I've had clients in NY, CT and VT, who have called for one hour appointments before. I have no problem driving 2, or 3 hours to see someone. Even if it is only for an hour.
xoxo Kat oxox
I live nowhere near ANY urban area - therefore, I always have to travel to an appointment. I'm also unattached, so scheduling does not involve family issues. Even then, both incall and outcall have their positives and negatives. A lady with an incall prevents me from having to get a room and do an overnight - established ladies are usually discreet enough (as am I, hopefully!) to make security less of an issue than intimacy and comfort. However, I also enjoy hosting a lady at a nice hotel - it lets ME provide security, intimacy and comfort, taking the burden off the lady.