Anyone who read my post from early this week knows what happened. Baically after confirming an appointment and room number, showed up at the door to no answer....very uncomfortable. Phone calls where not answered either.....

I got a call later in the day appologizing from the provider through voicemail. She said she was a bit uncomfortable because of the location and she hadn't fully checked my references. I could understand it, I think everyone gets freaked out every once in a while.

Well i called her back, ended up leaving an message that it was ok and shit happens.She called back and was sweet and offered to meet up for a free visit. Well i could not turn that down.

Well I finally spoke to her yesterday morning and set up a visit, later in the afternoon at 2:30 at her local in (specific location removed by Mod - Don't do it again). I was in the area that day any how so it was perfect.......almost.

Apparently she called at 1:45 and left a message about losing my refernce info, but I didn't get the message till about 2:10. She had also just called, but had the phone off becuase I was with a customer which was 1/2 block from the hotel.

I called back right away, as I had planed to call at 2:15 for our meet to no answer. Left a message with a work number reference as well. Called again at 2:30 when we where suppose to meet, again no answer. Sent text....no response.

I think she got spooked again because she didn't do the proper checks before hand. I don't think it was intentional or some double booking scam either. She seems really sweet and nice, so maybe it was just poor planning and bad luck.

I don't have any hard feelings or am angry. It sucks and probably shouldn't of happened but this is supposed to about having fun. And there sertainly isn't a shortage of women either, so life goes on.

And I'm not spiteful either, so I won't say who it was. I don't think it was a scam or she think she does this often, so I wouldn't want others to miss out the pleasure that I won't get. Plus it wouldn't a matter. Non guy in their horny mind would pass her up (or should) based on her looks and great reviews because of one person's bad experience. So it would pretty much just make me look like an ass to some.

For all, make sure your references are in line for any appointment before you get there on both sides.

Or maybe I'm just a fool...........

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Is wasting time with a lady who sounds clueless...

Girls who don't screen put both themselves and their customers at risk.  She left you holding the bag twice because she does not seem willing to follow through with proper screening...at least that is the way it appears.

It IS about having fun but there is a certain amount of due diligence involved on both sides to allow the actual appointment to be relaxing and fun.

screws you over TWICE and you won't let us know.  You're more than a fool for that IMHO.

You also seem gullible as hell to believe that it was just a screening issue.

If she called you tomorrow, and offered you another "free" date, would you go running down the road to meet her?

I think old P.T. put it very well!
Quite frankly I see no reason as to why her name shouldn't be brought out. The entire situation seems to be like someone playing games at the expense of others.

Are you sure that she's "highly reviewed and regarded as one of the top providers"???

Highly regarded providers do not make this mistake twice. A Highly regarded provider does not give you her room number than refuse to open the door.

The offer for a free one also doesn't sound like a reputable lady.  A discount maybe.

Either she's toolin you, or .... you're toolin us.

Why reschedule if she's not ready again, very bad on her part, you got screwed yet again.

If she is as reputable as you say she would have checked your references before finalizing the appointment..I cannot imagine confirming an appointment that I had not previously screened.  Then to set up a second appointment still having not screened....if you ask me that is bullshit!  Sounds like she got a better offer to me.  

Shame on the lady for her behavior.

Just my opinion of course.

Happy Hunting

Lucy keeps pulling the football away just before Charlie kicks the ball.

A classic running gag in the strip involved Lucy taunting Charlie Brown by holding a football and promising to let Charlie Brown kick it. Initially, Charlie Brown claimed that he would not trust her because she has tricked him this way many times, but Lucy then gave some reasons why Charlie Brown should give her credence. For example, to give him a signed document stating that she would not pull the ball away from him (later to reveal that the document had never been notarized). His doubt undermined, Charlie Brown then sprints toward Lucy to execute the place kick. At the last possible second, Lucy snatched the ball out of Charlie Brown's path, causing him to be flung up into the air and land hard on his back.

Even if there was no malice in her actions, and she was prevented from meeting with you, twice, for reasons beyond her control, she is at the very least a two-time NCNS and an ill-organized, inconsiderate time-waster, and all the hot pics and sterling reviews in the world aren't going to change that.  It would be a great service to fellow hobbyists to provide them with this extra data point, and let them draw their own conclusions based on all available data.  But, not content with withholding this pertinent fact, you furthermore identify her as a well-reviewed provider, thus effectively casting a small amount of doubt on every lady who answers that description.  actionalltime, I have no doubt that you mean well, but if you're not going to do us all the service of naming this lady, then kindly top wasting our time by wringing your hands about this unfortunate incident.

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This has nothing to do with screening.  My guess is she found a paying customer for your time slot.  That makes you gullible for accepting her excuse, not foolish.

You in no way will look like an ass (your words, not mine) for calling her out - so do it.

I would have not jumped so fast on the "free" offer.  Sometimes people say things to be nice, but don't expect you to accept.

I would have scheduled for an hour at the regular rate, and put a few extra quarters in the parking meter.

If everything is as you say...well reviewed provider...etc.  I think you might have gotten extended time no charge.

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At this point is does seem time to move on.

I'm with DC and everybody else who says we should know who it is; none of us wants to find out the hard way or be left holding the bag like you were. If she's reputable, then at least her reviews and perhaps a response from her here could clear things up.  Again, if she's as reputable as you say, then perhaps her reviews will speak for her.

I can't think of any way she could have magically lost your reference info.  I mean, I guess it is possible, but I really doubt it if she's on top of her game as you said she is.

And I have yet to hear about a free visit. Ever.  I mean perhaps with a UTR one has really hit it off with at a M&G or some convention perhaps, but not in this manner.

I'm willing to call it piss poor planning on her part than it being intentional, but if somebody doesn't check out my references before seeing me, I would be a bit worried.

To quote Star Wars and Obi-Wan: "Who's the more foolish, the fool, or the fool who follows him?"

Just my two cents...keep the change.

I think it was a shame that the first incident happened, and you had a right to be upset about it, but you have to understand that you are going into her own space (incall) and putting your cock in her and you expect her to let you for free? She wasnt hanging out in a bar looking for a lay with a stranger. She was frantic both times it seems! Frantic to stand you up the first time because of references and frantic to come up with something to calm you down afterwards. But did you really think that she would just open her door up and let a complete stranger come in, have his way with her, and then say "Thankyou for that, stranger, and hope all this sex made up for me being nervous about your references."
If there was a problemm with your references and you wanted to try again, you shouldve just did a bit more communication with her and references to have them check out. If she stood you up at that point a 2nd time then you know she is just a bad apple. But in my opinion you were exploiting her for expecting a free (let me guess 1 hour?) of sexual pleasure (yours only of course)