It seems on many first dates many providers seem to
want to get right too it. It's fine but if I booked for an hour
and you know, I will leave in an hour, is there anything wrong
with talking for a bit to help us feel a bit more relaxed?

you could take your own advice when it comes to posting

Is there a TER rule that you have to read them?
OR
Maybe you have to "Post" on them behind an alias?

You just failed to understand it.

It was a little funny.  

LMFAO and you "posted" twice on this thread.

And just start opening it. I'm one of those who are more likely to jump you than start out talking about our days, and that slows even me down, lol!

For them to talk when my prickston dickson is in their mouth.  Chit chat takes up time, plus if they are from Baaahstahn I can't understand a word they are saying anyway.  I say get to business and lets see if we can pop that turtle twice before the bell sounds.

he has more money than you (it seems like that anyway by your use of language) and does not care about the bell , but more in a more humain, less dog like kinda of experience? Just a thought from a hungry child from italy

Perhaps he does on all accounts, then again perhaps not.  I do happen to know he is quite the romantic.  

I think this is a great idea. It lets a girl know that you want to talk a bit first, which is my preference. It's hard to get everything in in an hour. I prefer an hour an a half - two hour dates.

I've talked to him, though never met him, and he's actually charming.