If I was to make the jump from lurker to someone actuly in the hobby, who should be my first" Provider" ? and why? Thanks

Do your homework, read reviews.  Look for someone who is providing the service level that you desire and take the plunge.  There are a lot of veterans around here that can probably put you at ease if you are nervous.  It really depends on your expectations of what Hobbying should be.

Hope this helped,

Your first time you'll be nervous, and probably the second third and fourth too. Just try to relax and find someone that appeals to you that is experienced. Not knowing what type you like it is really hard to say try Madam X because she'll slap you around, or try Mistress M because she is so gentle.


Good luck and take your time, research and don't get discouraged if you get turned down a few times.

He has been contemplating the same thing as you for quite a while now.  I'm sure he would be happy to at least discusss his thoughts.

Otherwise, call an agency you like.  I'm sure that any repectable owner will suggest a lady who will be sensitive to your "transition" and all the concerns that go with it.

Whatever you decide, the most difficult journey begins with a single step.  Good Luck!!  MM

Well, my friend, I cant really recommend anyone particularly as it does depend on what you need from the experience and who you are. I am at that point right now and will be seeing my first lady any day now after lurking for over three years. I would see any one of probably a dozen different ladies, depending on geographics, personal schedule, their availability, and budget. I recently spoke with a well reviewed lady by phone looking for a half hour appointment, then decided probably it would be well worth waiting until circumstances would allow the hour. I had an appointment almost nailed down with another well reviewed lady from this board which got put off due to the storm a few weeks ago. Actually, I cant wait to see her, in part, because I think she will be one who will be able to calm those jitters referred to below. There are three very sweet, lovely, and well reviewed ladies from Maine who are among potential all time favorites. And I could go on but it depends much on you, and where you are. In my case, I need to have a lady who has no problems with older, in their 60s men, and heavier portly types, i.e. 300 pounders. In my case, I have the good fortune due to my long tenure on the boards of having a recognition factor with many ladies, which is a help, especially with verification due to my not being able to provide a provider reference. If you want to start with an agency and are in the Mass area, contact Jill from Room Service, whom I am sure could arrange for you to meet a lady suitable to your situation. Unfortuneately, she is retired or I would recommend her on this list I speak of. She is a real sweetheart.......Good luck my friend and enjoy.......OMR

I think a lot of people could post see "so-n-so", but the reality is that given peoples expectations and preferences a lady that I prefer may not appeal to you. I see this all the time. Unfortunately this means your kind of left shooting in the dark the first few times. But if you try to stick with a provider/agency that has mostly good reviews you should be OK. Once you get a feel for what you like you can look at reviews and see other guys who have similar preferences and base your decisions on that.

Hmmm well im not  limited to girls that would see older heavyer men , im just over 6 ft and at 210 not quite a super heavy weight and at my early 30s im seeking a girl in her early 20s petite with long hair and to tell the truth a GF experiance type. Well thats what I would be seeking if I ever took the big step!! Thanks for the responses!!

look around, do your homework. There are ladies who fit what you seek out there.......good luck and enjoy......OMR

"Spanky" at Apres Vous!  Sorry, couldn't resist.  Do a search with what your interested in, then read the rev's.  Whatever your looking for, or expecting, she's out there.  But really, pass on Spanky.  

A random thought.  It may not be a good idea to let your first know she's your first.  She may take that for granted & skip this or that.  I would suggest you say your a newbie & have only been with 1 or 2 instead.

someone you are physically attracted to, for your first time it's very important ... 2nd only to her being highly rated of course