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loarthan 4 Reviews 2949 reads
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If a provider goes over the time we have alotted for the session, is additional payment considered due?  When does it go from being in the moment to being taken advantage of?

Ladies, your comments?

ShowtimeX3951 reads

I am fairly new to the hobby, and have been very lucky to have had 4 out of 5 meetings go very well.

During my last two dates, the GFE girls I was with let the 1 hour mark come and go, with no hint that we should be wrapping up.  I started to feel uncomfortable.  

I always place the donation as soon as I arrive, and I don't carry more cash than I plan to give the provider.  I always tip, so if the date was for $200, there is $250 in the envelope.

So, my question.  If we are at the 1.5 hr mark, and she is still going at it with me, do you think I should be the one to stop?  As much as I would like to go on, I don't want to take advantage of the lady.  

What do you think?

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loarthan2950 reads

If a provider goes over the time we have alotted for the session, is additional payment considered due?  When does it go from being in the moment to being taken advantage of?

Ladies, your comments?

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ShowtimeX3297 reads

Just clarify, I am worried that I would be taking advantage of her.  I just wouldn't want there to be hard feelings after I am gone.

Thanks for your reply!

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MatureGentleman4540 reads

I have seen ladies who were (or acted) offended when I suggested that I should compensate for the extra time.  And I have had ladies who accused me (later, of course) for shortchanging them because I didn't compensate them for the extra time they spent with me...

I think you're damned if you do and damned if you don't...

Have fun, MG

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Shy_N_Jewish3320 reads

Now that shows a great upbringing that you're worried about 'shafting' (pardon the pun) her.

-Shy_N_Jewish

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night19542493 reads

This happened to me recently and it was not .5 over but 1.5 over. I felt bad when I realized the time. We were having so much fun!! I saw her again and made sure to put an extra large tip in the envelope. She had said no problem because she had no appontments scheduled and she was enjoying herself.

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dogbone3705 reads

If she is over time you can bet that she knows. As far as having to compensate, well that's a tough one. Most girls watch the clock like a hawk and when the 45 minute mark approaches they are thinking about rapping it up.

If she stays way over either incall or outcall she is probably enjoying herself and your company. Consider yourself a lucky bastard and count your blessings.

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landman_19662544 reads

Dogbone is right on here....Models know exactly what they are doing and what time it is...and some are very loving and passionate people that enjoy this hobby as much as we do...you are a lucky man to have found one of those special providers... enjoy your time with her!

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George Strait4158 reads

I agree with dogbone in my experience if the girl was having a good time and didn't have another appointment waiting, then you might run over. If that is the case with me I usually give them a tip. Most providers have a good bedside manner and tactfully move you out the door. Now  with agencies you rarely get any extra time and in most cases get 50 minutes.

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Melanie Love3282 reads

Since I only see from 1 to 2 gentlemen per that day, I allow overtime with no extra compensation. I have even asked out clients to join me for lunch/dinner after our session, for I don't like eating alone. I also don't have any issues in paying for our meal (although, 90% percent would refuse me paying towards it..but I would sneak an extra 20.00 on the table when he wasn't looking lol), for that is my way of letting him know that I appreciate his company :) I say if it looks like the provider and you are having a good time, go with the flow. If it bother's your conscience a bit, offer her dinner, buy her a small gift, or tip her (remember most of us ladies do not ever expect anything, other than a repeat business! smile) the next time you see her... just my long-winded advice ;)

Good luck on your ventures! :)

Mel:)

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Diago2728 reads

Your comments are greatly appreciated.

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