I am very clean male and very well groomed.
A few days ago I set up an appointment with a provider I was dying to see only to get there and for her to say sorry you are late even though I was there on time, called the person scheduling and was told yeah sorry its because she doesnt see you race!!
WOW!!

This happens all the time in this business. Some ladies won't see people of certain types or races and it is equally true the other way around. Remember, this is a business about intimacy of the closest kind, and people have a right to choose who they wish to be with. This is not the same as racism or any other -isms, at least not in my book.

I  recall once a provider had me drive around in my car in front of her window so she could check me out before giving me her room number. I passed her checks and had a good time afterwards. I was pretty sure she was screening for a certain type of people.

Happy hobbying!

I disagree.  I am shocked and offended.

Not really offended, I just couldn`t believe it, I wish she would have advertised this was the case or told me before I waited for my appointment.
Unfortunately I don`t think its a certain type, (wouldnt the certain type be covered by the references?) but more a certain race as her assistant told me and apologized. Just not a good feeling when someone lies to your face when they open the door and accuses of being late yet you called and was told you were early and to wait few mins.
But oh well i have seen some great people.

I disagree, but I am not offended.

Here's why it's ignorant and bullshit (and offensive) to make blanket rules or assumptions about people based on color or anything else.  

ASK YOURSELF THIS:

Would you rather have sex with a white, white man or woman, or a black, black man or woman?

OK, you have your answer?  

Now...there's one additional thing:

The white, white woman is Barbara Bush, and the black, black woman is Beyonce Knowles.

The white, white man is Carrot Top, and the black, black man is Danzel Washington.  

(Really, to be fair, it's not about color...)

He did nothing wrong. Noone has a say to what culture we are born into and noone should be punished for it. Thats just cruel what she did to him. He did everything professionally and was curteous and really didnt deserve that.

I hear so many sad stories of providers not cherishing their clients like they should. Im so very sad to hear these stories.

I won't dispute a woman's right to specify with whom she will have sex and under what conditions.

But for this lady to put a man through the screening process and the whole nine yards -- only to have him arrive and turn him away over something basic -- shows a total lack of respect for him as a human being.

I understand it is politically incorrect for a provider to put such preferences out there. But let's face it -- escorting itself is politically incorrect to start with.

If a lady has such preferences, she should state them on her site so that men don't compromise their information to women who won't even see them.

but curiosity got the better of this cat. What is your ethnicity?

...a Na'vi from the moon Pandora of the planet Polyphemus and I am here on earth to have sex with earthlings so I can improve your genetic makeup!

Eywa willing, of course!

at the same time. And the princess had several nipple shots.

Damn and they were tall, so let your imagination go.

LOL

i won't give credit where none is yet due, but i do know that for example some local asian providers prefer not to see asian clients because honestly speaking the community is quite small here. there may be a pretty good chance that you are somehow connected.

t/c

-- Modified on 1/25/2010 11:44:51 AM

I see a great Korean lady in NYC, but she won't see Koreans and makes that clear in her ads for exactly the reason you state - even in NYC she would risk being outed to the large Korean community if she saw Korean clients.

I'm a mix of Irish and French and the last time I was discriminated against was by a provider when I was in my early 20's and she wouldn't see anyone under 30.

Though I was not happy with what happened, for her safety I don`t think it`ll be fair for me to post her name on the discussion board.