Posting this to this page as I am a local so hope this is appropriate for this board.

I have been trying to schedule a meeting with a visiting provider for about a week. Went through her sight to request a meeting, included my DC and TER information and a day and time. No response. I email her directly as a follow up. No response again. Went through the site again to request again. No response. Emailed again and this time just asked if there were any issues with my verification so I would be aware of future issues that I may need to address. Stated I am not looking for specific names. No response. Contacted my references and no issues. Sent one more email just asking for a simple response if she just doesn't want to meet with me which I have no issue with as to each is own (but would be bummed). No response. Just saw an update on another board that she is still coming next week.  

Again if someone just doesn't want to meet with me for whatever reason I am fine with but not responding is very disappointing, especially since I am not new to the hobby.  

Ladies, am I wrong in being a little perturbed that I have not received a response? Also, if she does happen to see this and puts 2+2 together I am still interested in meeting.

Forget about her and move on and find someone else. There are plenty of providers out there to see.
You should pass on her if she does contact  you.  

Rewarding bad behavior is not the right thing to do, If the roles were reversed, she would be calling you out as a time waster.
Which is exactly what she is. Odds are she would also threaten you with being blacklisted

I hear ya LC but her dimensions are a dream come true for me. Plus she has recent reviews that are great. Just have never gone through this situation before.

She either is already booked for that time or isn't good at getting back to people or doesn't want to see you. So regardless of which one it is after so many attempts by you, you absolutely have got to let it go and move on. Personally I would not keep trying nor what I want to spend my money with somebody that I have to kiss their ass and hound them for a response. I had an issue with the doctors office where her after two phone calls I still cannot schedule my appointment. I called them and let them know this would be my last try because I did not anticipate it to be so hard considering the amount of money I was going to spend.  Ion the third call they apologized and said that they were shortstaffed and did get me scheduled but I would've moved on because as a customer in a matter what the business you want respect and to be appreciated. There are too many businesses out there to have to deal with that. My opinion anyways and it's not to say that I am right but you obviously wanted opinions by coming on here so I'm getting it to you!!

Yes not having received a response yet from someone you hope to forge a strong connection with is disappointing.

At the same time I suggest that you choose to be deferential to her circumstances until you could sort out what actually could be happening on her end

In this age of emails and instant or almost instant communication, it is easy to think that an email or multiple emails sent is multiple emails received and read.

I could tell you that for some of the ladies, sometimes they literally receive so many emails during a day or a one week period that it is a huge mountain for them to simply read them, process them and respond to them.

There is also that spam feature or whether someone's computer and the softwares that they are using are actually all working.

So while it is frustrating, please consider giving her the benefit of the doubt, and give her a second and or a third chance, if you truly feel your connection with her is going to be very strong. It could be totally worth it if you are willing to wait!

Try to give her a chance, and not assume anything bad until you hear back.

or generally annoying at some point? Is it possible you have a bad reputation when it comes to this?

...just sayin.....

QTIPS is a fantastic mantra for life.

Quit Taking it Personally.  

It applies very much in this situation. You don't know what's going on. Maybe is going to her spam, which means the next one will too. Maybe something awful happened.  Maybe it is indeed about you.  After a certain amount of requests she may have become uncomfortable. Checking in a 2nd time is find, but more than that can become concerning as it may show an inability to see what's called a "soft no," like maybe she intended to respond to you but after getting 4 emails in a certain time frame felt uncomfortable.

Yes it would be decent of her to get back to you, assuming she's not overwhelmed and able to. And maybe she will. But give her space and room, and all that... but yeah, regardless...  

QTIPS.

There are other providers, no they're not her. But I strongly believe in being open to trying something new.

xo,

-H

END OF MESSAGE

I have and nothing but thanks for the advice.

Absolutely on point!

There comes a time where you need to accept the facts (e,g., that you will not get an answer)

😉 QTIP, for sure...

This sounds like a case of a provider that is already extremely booked with clients that she has seen in the past. I would say that maybe multiple emails for an appointment turned her off a bit, but i think she just may be extremely booked. especially if she is traveling from out of town. Let's be honest we love the money and the business as much as you guys love the companionship. My best advice to you would be to find another provider in the meantime. I am sure that on her next visit if you email her she will put you at the top of the list. When we tour it gets hard to fit everyone in, especially if you are a high volume provider that enjoys a little downtime. Luckily for you Boston is chock full of big beautiful busty providers to make you forget that this ever happened. I hope you find someone that makes your head spin!

I can't tell you how many gentlemen I have missed because Gmail rooted your communication through spam. Now I make it a point to check my SPAM daily.