Just want to show you how a subtle change in words makes it all better.
Posted By: escalade1964
Words in the hobby like "Hooker, "One Pop" and "Haggle"
to me are both rude and disrespectful.
I know it never happens but if we change wording of "Haggle" to:
"Negotiation of the Donation" and not call ladies names like "Hooker" but "Providers"
Would it work and do guys in Boston attempt "Negotiation of the Donation"
Your thoughts if any?
Would it not smell as sweet.
A cheap prick by any other name, would still not not get laid.
"A cheap prick by any other name, would still not not get laid"
hy not just say C U Next Tuesday, doesn't quite say the same thing...means the same though.
One for you guys to use, those that would never date say it out loud.
And, huck the fawks! See, I bet you knew what I meant! And yes, I love Chicago...but, not at the moment!
Talking about money is nessecary sometimes. My workplace sells wholesale to retailers. Different retailers get different pricing for various reasons. Donations need to be clearly communicated. Some ladies have one price on their website, another price on a verification site, another price in their ads. Then throw in a discount for being a member of this site or that site. It gets confusing sometime.
I don't expect to lowball someone, nor do I haggle or discuss this in person, but a fair price does need to be established. All part of the business agreement beforehand.
Remember, we're only asking for the value of your time
I always think like internet service provider or something, lol. Hobbyist & provider just never seemed to fit 2 me. I think we def could come up with some sleeker terms. Was never really bothered by hooker or tramp or cunt. These are just words being used by someone who prob doesnt really matter much at the end of the day. Its how you feel about yourself inside that counts.
So as long as there is a chance of something I can say being used against me, even though I do nothing illegal & am just a model... as long as there is a chance that something can be used against me - I'd prefer not 2 say it. I hate 2 admit it but I will always be scared & frightened about the whole thing. Until things change & laws are passed & things become taxed & regulated & decriminalized then being able to discuss certain things without fear are just not going to happen on my end. Maybe its these types of things that should get us going and that we should want 2 change instead of the word haggle.
...i'm going with Consuela.
... IMO is distasteful. There are plenty of wonderful ladies in every price range, choose a price range that is right for you. I date gentlemen who "value" my time- negotiating price tells me that you think I'm not worth my donation, that's not a good way to start off a relationship. Have class- date within your means and NEVER discuss donation as donations are listed on our sites for a reason. If a lady offers a lower donation on a specific site, simply state that you are responding to THAT ad specifically 
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No matter what you call it, whether you're asking the girl if she has any specials, if you're offering a lower rate than her stated donation, asking for half hour rates when she clearly doesn't do half hours, you're still haggling. You're opening the door to have her talk about rates other than what she has stated.
In some states, like where I started as Whitney, if you talk rates on the phone or use any words like 'pop', 'cups of coffee per session', 'GFE', etc... that's enough to get you arrested when you meet. Once someone crosses the line, whether it's using a hobby term or asking about rates, I simply hang up and won't answer again.
Even the most experienced hobbyist, and sometimes ESPECIALLY the most experienced hobbyist, asks for special rates and such. This is behavior that can get you in trouble. Why chance it over 50 bucks.
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Posted By: escalade1964
Words in the hobby like "Hooker, "One Pop" and "Haggle"
to me are both rude and disrespectful.
I know it never happens but if we change wording of "Haggle" to:
"Negotiation of the Donation" and not call ladies names like "Hooker" but "Providers"
Would it work and do guys in Boston attempt "Negotiation of the Donation"
Your thoughts if any?
People sensitive to this kind of language probably shouldn't be in this business as a provider or a client.
Some people just want to haggle with hooker, hand them a sweaty wad of cash and get their one pop.
You can pretty it up if you want, but you're paying someone to let you fuck them
Riddle me this. I just had a gal offer to see me at grandfathered rates. I orignally saw her during a two for one special. I've paid her website rates during subsequence visits. My last visit was over a year and a half ago. I can't remember what those rates were. How do I ask without asking
I would simply Thank her, let her know that you can not recall the grandfathered rate
and if she could please let you know.
Although grandfathered rates are a nice offer. I have never accepted them. Their rate is their rate.
If her new donation is outside my hobby budget, although difficult, I move on and try to find a date who is.
Oh I'm sure that she's a pip and will understand that none of us can remember everything! That's why some ladies reel off grocery lists as they climax, they are just multitasking. I hate to speak for anyone but I see no harm in asking her to refresh your memory. Maybe you'll be forced give twenty good licks to as penance or something? Sounds fair I think.
Grace
