Posted By: ginainthemorning
Our rates are for OUR TIME and PROVIDING you a safe, clean incall
I have already read in the media that a few of these cuddle services are already being targeted by LE as they can't believe anyone would pay to cuddle. Legally you need to have your work space inspected and get a license to have a legal cuddle business. The provider would be taking the same amount of RISK of violence + arrest whether is 60 bucks to cuddle or 250 for fs? Also many of these cuddle business are set up like the spa's where the 60 bucks is just to get in the door.
This idea that BJ's should be at a discounted special is ironic, as a bj takes just as much effort as fs, especially for those of us that are the top rated bbbj providers in New England. Even fetish/fantasy providers charge more for that service and yet you seem to think it is suppose to be cheaper.
I would also think any person charging 60 bucks a hour, regardless of what the service is, they would need to have 10 visitors a day. So your not visiting a SAFE INCALL.
There will always be low prices ladies that have fewer options than the established providers, and you sound like the guys that call me and say "why is your rate so much higher than all the younger girls" and I tell them feel free to call one of them. There are many risks involved with scrolling for the most desperate providers with these low rates.
Many of us love to cuddle and enjoy pillow talk, other ladies do not have the ability to be that intimate. Regardless we still insist on being paid a fare rate.
You're making incorrect assumptions about cuddle arrangements here. I know talking money is personal on both sides and I'm not here to criticize you or anything. But cuddle services usually set you up with outcall or incall to her house, and the independent cuddle buddies I've had have been at their house or apartment. College students, or somebody working at a coffee shop, etc. For some an extra 60 or 70 etc to cuddle with somebody is great, and they don't need 10 a day like you mention.
As for if it's viable as it's own job and not supplemental, I couldn't say. I'm not sure why you think I'm just talking about providers. I never said the usual hotel escort situation would make sense for 60 an hour. I just mentioned that 60 an hour cuddle services exist, you're comparing these in a way I'm not intending. Just saying, you're criticizing something unfairly in my opinion. It's not anymore unsafe than online dating, some may want to meet somewhere first, it can be a nice thing like anything else.
There's an escort in this topic for example who does offer cuddling on their site for half of their usual hourly rate. For me it'd be nice to see more escorts doing that, not saying you have to, ha please don't be mad at me.
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You're making incorrect assumptions by thinking cuddle girls are not erotic service providers. A erotic service provider include erotic dancers, escorts, dom's, street workers, cuddle girls, bodyrub + or massage, cam girls, porn performers, nude models, or phone sex operators, fetish and fantasy and yes cuddle girls.
We know anyone can open up a business in their homes, but it is illegal and don't you think having tons of visitors may tip people off so very quickly it becomes a UNSAFE INCALL.
I don't think any escort should have to explain why they won't throw their standards into the wind to accommodate a guy like you that doesn't feel she is WORTH IT. Many of us rather stay LOW VOLUME PROVIDERS. This is 1 reason that we get paid a fair rate for our time, as our clients trust that our incalls are safe, and drama free.
I wouldn't let a client come wash my car for 60 bucks...LOL
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