arent gonna be showing up with out a bouncer. So going in to detail on how respectful you all are is not nessecary. The driver or bouncer will again lay out the exact rules upon thier arrival.  
if you d used a bacheler party service prior to this youd be familiar with that.....
most also have photos of the ladies.  
I worked for one called Select  in Malden and they had all hot hot ladies. Your re assurance that your respecteful wouldnt have been nessecary as we always arrived with a driver whom would lay out the rules before we began our show.  
i would avoid explaining that you understand no spanking ect ect, cuz your stating the obvious and they arent gonna wanna hear or care. I d stick to calling them , telling them the date and time.
 tell them youd like the hottest girls available.  
      The one i worked for most definetly had some very very hot models. from 20- 32...
i wouldnt volunteer how respectful you are and what your friends will be sure NOT to do. Thats just going to annoy them or people trying to do the bookings. Just a simple perusing the companys rules page will suffice. You have to take a min, imagine you are a busy manager of sub shop, say some one calls, and this is busiest time day! lunch hour! and all the ten cutomer they lose because you ramble, will just hit up jacks pizza down road.  
 say you answer and a guy wants a sub. but he wants to explain to you he wants a sub role. NOT a hot dog bun.  
 then he wants to state he wants the diced pickles. not the puckles sliced as they use on hamburgers.
ect ect. you get my point. as entertainers, escorts, dom, fetish, erotic massuese, whatever the case may be and in any and all business. you wanna have respect that the world doesnt revolve around you and try to be considerate these people are  working ,  
 obviously a sub comes with diced pickles not pickle slices. obviously a sub on sub roll not hot dog bun. by going on and on, your wasting the sub shop or any business for this matter time.  
    Any dancer will clearly inform you if she wants to do an extra. trust me, she will let you know how much extra and where she will do them if at all.  
      as a customer, you need to read thier web site, and allow them to inform you how they do THIER show, its not about you they are the ones in charge of THIER BODY THIER SHOW,.
    no GOOD talented dancers that are hot are gonna allow spanking and disrespect during a show.
 they dont have too. they make enough just doing the show.  
the company i worked for the owners collect 250 PER model to arrive....
that included us smiling kissing on cheek, walk in act professional get acquainted say hello to whom ever is running event.
and they dont care its 40. all bachelor or b day party have 40. thats not really important.  
      then we went to get changed, and the driver stay behind and will say i am so n so representing so n so entertainment,here are the rules, a girl girl show is 250. a private show is 250, a solo toy show 125.
 no contact dances are 25.  
no touching the ladies if need be sit on your hands!
the girls will do a performance for b day boy, then will do lap dances 25 bucks plus tips each. they wil;l stay until you stop spending money.  
so each girls gets cut out the 250 the guy pays to get here there. then she give bouncer/driver cut. and stays and does dance after dance after dance. and works all night til she ends with 900 end of shift, if she s a beginner, i always got 900 at end shift, the more seasoned ladies made more.
and thats with out extras or being a whore, i made 900 end of night.
 if you want a whore come on bp or ter.
 i d say make sure your not lookin for bj and stuff, my experience at my service was they were very very strict, about , a rule. do whatever you want just dont be a whore!
 they , at the service i worked at were really snooty about that.  
                i know  cadillac lounge i worked at also had alot bachelor parties arrive, you gotta let em know when you get there. you can choose the dancers for his show.  
 no contact dances topless dance there 25 a song, full contact {you never try and touch a dancers pussy or spank her} thats common sense. and you shouldnt have to re assure them , you should know. if you wanta whore, come on here and if you want a dance go the club,  
alot the ladies will get really pissed.
 full contact dances are 50 and again they will TELL you the rules. you dont arrive and tell them your rules. dont quite work like that!
 thats great you dont spank the danccers , ! but shut up and listen and let them run thier show and tell you what they allow to be done to thier bodies and what they dont.
there are plenty of bachelor party company in yellow pages or on internet. most have college girls, i know thats what i did while i went through cosmetology school.  
 i just googled bacheler parties, first hit is shamrock and thier modo is "the more doe the longer we go!" so yes thats what i said above as long as guys are tipping gettn dances and privates you stay soon as they stop you go next appt