Ask any man if he has ever been with an escort and the response you'd get would be the equivalent of asking your goldfish if it needs a bicycle: a blank stare and utter silence. Of course, the men will eventually deny it or casually change the subject.
Now only a very nave individual would believe that most men have never called an escort or a service for a "date". Otherwise, how would these places with names like Room Service Girls and Glamour Girls be in business for so long, and with such success? Yeah, now that's food (or vagina) for thought. So what's all the hype about? Why do I insist on ordering women over the telephone (or via the Web) rather than have a long-term relationship that might actually be worth the investment? Well, there are a multitude of reasons and all of them aren't horrible ones either.
Just because I choose to opt for an provider doesn't mean I'm a horrible individual with the morals of Charlie Sheen. I like to think of myself as good looking and wouldn't have a hard time landing dates with most woman I come across. But mostly I see escorts because I simply don't have time to do the courting that is required when trying to find a date (or even maintain a relationship for that matter).
Why not get an escort? After all, I can find one custom-made to my preference (long dark hair, brown eyes, 5'8", in black lengerie) and there's no awkwardness regarding sex and the like because hey, if the price is right, then it's my night.
Most of these providers are a beautiful representation of a woman and I enjoy the company of good looking women. And the outcome (literally) is known beforehand rather than debating if I'm going to get laid and risk rejection. It's clear-cut and understood right from the start. Besides my professional and personal life is the only life I really have. Most of the time I usually can't go down the beach cruising for girls so I simply give Jill from RSG a call to get my groove on.
I'm sure there are some gentlemen that are simply searching for some company and don't want to get laid (okay, don't only want to get laid). Being in the presence of a beautiful woman, even if she's paid to be there, sometimes makes guys feel worthy and proud. Another point: not every man calls upon an escort for a guaranteed sex partner at the end of the night. Some guys literally just need a date because they're in from out of town or because they want to look good in front of their colleagues/friends. As well, most divorced men (and men who have had their hearts and bank accounts stomped on) prefer escorts simply because there is no likelihood of an expensive divorce, emotional blackmail or attachment or worse yet, the utilization of sex as a means of dire punishment.
I have a lot of friends who are upset because their women refuse to provide certain sexual favors for them (you all know who they are). Now considering that some guys don't like dealing with girls who find blow-jobs appalling, or think that anal sex is only for homosexuals, they opt for escorts who will come on over and do exactly as they say. Which guy wouldn't want to tell his woman to take off all her clothes, get on all fours on the bed, and seductively tell him to come and penetrate her? Being able to direct these women and make them perform sometimes peculiar sexual favors is also part of the beauty of the whole thing.
Obviously, my point is that if I choose to see a provider it dosen't make me a horrible person, but rather I'm simply a guy that needs to be with someone at a given time without the hassles of having to deal with the dating game, the "I'll call you"s, and the lonely nights spent with my dick in one hand and porntube.com staring back at me from the computer screen.
Then again, I like to be guareenteed that if I'm paying for dinner, then my woman of the evening is going to provide dessert.
Brandon
