I highly recommend that he continue to do that so that he does not overspend. I do the same thing I have mine in a spreadsheet. My life spending on the hobby for the last 10 years is $51,410.
I've been hobbying pretty much since I was 20 when discovered AMPS around RI and CT. During college it was for an occasional itch when the local college sluts weren't putting out or I didn't feel like sweet talking the girls into the sack. Upon getting married though (and gathering more income) my habit has steadily increased quite a bit (please refrain from the "Duh!" commentary). Thus I decided to keep a very simple log file in Excel of all my appointments as a new years resolution and I figured I would share some YTD stats with the community and ask if anyone else is keeping a log and if they would share their similar stats in this thread.
# of Appointments: 24 # of providers: 20 # of providers with two visits: 4 (no threepeats yet) # of Independent Providers: 10 # of Agency Providers: 8 # of AMP Providers: 2 # of Reviews Written: 2 # of CL Referrals: 5 # of Backpage Referrals: 1 # of Cityvibe Referrals: 3 # of Eros Referrals: 1 # of Incalls: 23 # of Outcalls: 0 # of Hotel Incalls: 19 # of Hotels Visited: 13 # of AMP Incalls: 3 # of Apartment Incalls: 1 # of Cardates: 1 (reviewed!!!) # of most visits to one hotel: 4 # of Average Days between Appointments: 4.9 # of most days between appointments: 11 (damn family vacations) # of least days between appointments: 1 Average Cost / Appointment: $272 Cheapest Appointment: $80 Most Expensive Appointment: $400 Total Amount spent: $6,530 # of TER Subscription days I am missing out on by not reviewing everyone: 270
Seeing the numbers laid out like this makes me wonder if I should be keeping a sex addicts hotline number on speed dial. Lastly, and I just thought of this and while I didn't keep this in the spreadhseet, I did my husbandly duty with the SO about 8 - 10 times since New Years.
I highly recommend that he continue to do that so that he does not overspend. I do the same thing I have mine in a spreadsheet. My life spending on the hobby for the last 10 years is $51,410.
I keep track as well, mostly because I want to keep it under control. I see this as an exercise in risk management. I've been able to limit my playdates to 5-6 per year (AMPs and independents), for a total of $800 to $850.
About 6 years ago I peaked at about $1750 in a year and that was when I was going only to strip clubs. So when I got more involved, I knew I had to limit myself or risk serious trouble.
Also the extended time between forays means that the anticipation is very powerful, and adds to the excitement of each encounter. They tend to be explosive.
From 2002 to 2005 I was in Europe for work and while based in London and visiting Amsterdam and Frankfurt regularly, I kept a similar log.
Thankfully the dollar was very strong then, so I got some great stuff cheap as one of the furniture companies used to advertise. I also was on an expense account for food and travel expenses, and with some judicious offsets could afford more. That is why I have over a 100 TER reviews in that period plus like you a lot not reviewed due to lack of internet links to share for contact.
I had a column for pros and non-pros and was doing land grant business in both columns. My total three year spend was $8K GBP and $14K Euro. I shared the mongering spreadsheet with a few locals at a PunterNet meet and greet and found that my spend wasn't that outrageous for hobbying within that group. And as one fellow punter noted, his flying hobby had cost more per year and his wife didn't liek that hobby either
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