As you are now mature and most of us hobbiest too are mature, although a few youngsters are active in the hobby, I see women differently. a mature in attitude and as well as appearance is so much more attractive to me than a young girl with tattoo's and pink hair. I prefer to play in the right sandbox but also like a 30 ish girl too if she's worldly. Our eyes get weaker but our perception gets stronger so I get what you mean, many times I'll be in town at a bar and wonder aloud ( half praying)if that 22 year old hottie is meeting her mom for a drink? a fit and pretty milf really does it for me more than her hot daughter.
As you know I am quite comfy with who I am and what I look like...I also whole heartedly believe that ones personality changes how I personally SEE them...for example I can see a man on the street and I will literally say outloud "I'd fuck him"...then I meet that man at the chinese restaurant and he is a prickish sorta guy...now he just went from a 9 to a 6...I'm pretty sure that I am not alone on this...of course I am 42 not 22...so what I am wondering is this...are men really that focused on a woman's aesthetics that her personality is secondary? Would you personally rather see a chick who is reasonably attractive and really wanton OR do you just want a barbie doll with 3 holes? Is it a mood thing? Do you even care if she feels attracted to you? I don't see men under 40 so it obviously matters to me. OK I need cawfee meow. Ta Ta xo
Looks are a distant 3rd. I mean, if I new the lady had my 1 and 2 I don't even need to see the pics. I have met many ladies through the board where I did not look at one photo nor read one of her reviews.
To DT's point, Tell me they give one of the BEST BBBJ's ever...I'm In!
It's the picture that gets my attention. Have met knockouts that just lie there waiting for me to finish I wont see again.
There was another (retired) lady I saw quite often and I wouldn't put her at the top of my hottest choices but we connected really well both in and out of the bed. I am actually still friends with her thru facebook in the real world
So yes the personality means a lot to me
Posted By: mrfisher
personality is much more important in the medium and long term.
As you are now mature and most of us hobbiest too are mature, although a few youngsters are active in the hobby, I see women differently. a mature in attitude and as well as appearance is so much more attractive to me than a young girl with tattoo's and pink hair. I prefer to play in the right sandbox but also like a 30 ish girl too if she's worldly. Our eyes get weaker but our perception gets stronger so I get what you mean, many times I'll be in town at a bar and wonder aloud ( half praying)if that 22 year old hottie is meeting her mom for a drink? a fit and pretty milf really does it for me more than her hot daughter.
Oh yes Papi I know exactly what you mean! 24 year old kid lives next to me and he is so much fun to look at and even chat with...he asked me if I'd consider a 24 year old...I said NO but give your dad my number lol
Well I for one have been 24 years old since I joined this crazy group 9 years ago so I guess Erin won't do me but I did enjoy the small of your back at that m&g on the waterfront years ago.
Just like in reality I think we mature with age (maybe fester is a better adj for me) as we learn, appreciate, make mistakes and rebound. I have a harder time with younger providers more from the age gap than anything else, plus my big head thinks a little more often the my little one these days.
Now a mother daughter scenario is something I've never experienced...
Sophisticated intelligent educated fan to talk good looking. 3 holes .
Here is living prove of what I say always- in states women separate of their 3 holes form their personalities so men do too - Madonna /slut complex.. or / or . see me or for my personality or you want just my holes .. NO !!! theory want and donate here for all of that as package but will choose 3 holes - here - bcuase they have at home .. women .. you kn ow with personalities .. and you know - their women at home - not too bad and often yes ..let them use their holes well as well
what they here for - for variety most of them . and some yes get what they do not have at home
and of course they look for whole package - the best of them- but they never will invite and donate her roses for her personality !! WHOLE PACKAGE .
Since, I am no longer in my 20's anymore the slam bam thank you mam days are are behind me. Thank the Lord! LOL Now looks are not as important to me as they were. I am looking for a chemistry that fits both of us. I really do not want a "Barbie Doll" anymore. They are a dime a dozen. I have had my share and it seems their is just to much drama and they are what I call "HIGH MAINTENANCE". I'm way to busy for that stuff. Who really wants that? I just like to be around a lady who is attractive to me. Just me. To me her looks are just part of the equation. I like to see how she thinks and talks, can she make me feel good about us and what we have or could have. Am I special to her? Beauty is more than skin deep. Hell, I want her to sexy and alluring and love to wear high heels! I want her to be able to make me a good drink and let's relax and let it FLOW! LOL A "youngin" won't be able to do that. HA
Can that really happen in this city??? Now that is the question.
Absofknlutely it can happen MJ...when it's supposed to play the song"the secret of life" by faith hill...makes perfect sense
Posted By: MonsterJazzII
Since, I am no longer in my 20's anymore the slam bam thank you mam days are are behind me. Thank the Lord! LOL Now looks are not as important to me as they were. I am looking for a chemistry that fits both of us. I really do not want a "Barbie Doll" anymore. They are a dime a dozen. I have had my share and it seems their is just to much drama and they are what I call "HIGH MAINTENANCE". I'm way to busy for that stuff. Who really wants that? I just like to be around a lady who is attractive to me. Just me. To me her looks are just part of the equation. I like to see how she thinks and talks, can she make me feel good about us and what we have or could have. Am I special to her? Beauty is more than skin deep. Hell, I want her to sexy and alluring and love to wear high heels! I want her to be able to make me a good drink and let's relax and let it FLOW! LOL A "youngin" won't be able to do that. HA
Can that really happen in this city??? Now that is the question.
Although looks is 3rd in order of importance it is still important. I had one experience where I knew a provider's looks were questionable when I made the appointment, but her reviews made it sound like it would be a worthwhile risk. As it turnd out her personality was terrific and her performance was off the charts. Unfortunately (and I don't mean to be cruel) she was so unattractive that I would never see her again. I'm no Brad Pitt and I really feel badly saying that but it's just the truth.
Incidentally, I think that perosonality and preformance are so closely tied together that it's almost impossible to enjoy the performance of someone who has a poor attitude.
Are men really that focused on a woman's aesthetics that her personality is secondary?
*** Personality is very important but the reality of the hobby (price per hour) is that I can barely afford the aesthetics so social/personal interaction is minimal at best. ***
Would you personally rather see a chick who is reasonably attractive and really wanton OR do you just want a barbie doll with 3 holes?
*** I am a lover of women, especially shapely, mature and horny. I am sure that younger "barbie dolls" have much to offer, but I prefer a woman who can rock my socks off to the Beatles or Aerosmith. ***
Is it a mood thing?
*** I am a male who isn't getting his needs met at home. You will not find me in a better mood than when I am with you (or any provider). ***
Do you even care if she feels attracted to you?
*** I have decent looks a good self esteem, so "yes", but not a huge worry. I am far more interested in her pleasure than her visual impressions. An earth shattering, grab the sheets, squeeze my head in your crotch-vise is what I want her to "feel". ***
For me it's in the writing, either in your add, posts or your website. As I read about you and get a sense for your personality, I find that the key for myself. The way you write (Normally) shows your style very clearly and helps me learn if we would a good match. I really do not have a particular "type of body" that I am drawn to. I have seen a variety of ladies from BBW to petite, short to tall, small chest to large, every hair color and ethnicity. I read through all the ads, then look at your website or ads on other sites, to lead more about you, if you do not have a website or have very brief ads that do not allow me to understand whom "You" are, I will not likely go farther. Hoping I did not just ramble on, but that's just me. (: Thx, Ratty
I have a huge thing for passion. Not really into the wham, bam thank you mam stuff Although I am a little older, but looks can come in a distant 2nd if there is a good passionate connection as far as I'm concern
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