Recent ad indicates GFE yet all reviews specify CBJ and limited kissing and daty.

My questions is:
What do you think GFE Means????

For me it is simple; No bbbj , no GFE

It means GFE - Girl Friend Experience.  In most cased that translates to passionate making out and DFK kissing, you  can also do DATY and used your hands and yes I agree it also means BBJ.  Unless you’re my wife then it means Go F elsewhere.

This has been bantered about for decades. Not even certain if it is still to be found on The other BoarD but a number of years ago a hobbyist that went by the name "St Bart" posted a definition of the term "GFE" that he felt was a MINIMUM of what a provider should offer in order to call her services "GFE".

This might help a little

Lots to read but very informative.

It will forever be discussed and argued - probablky more than religion and/or politics

GFE with those limits makes no sense. But at least she mentioned it up front.

The St Barts scale is a good measure. However IMO there is a HUGE missing ingredient and that is "personality."

I have met several ladies some CBJ, some BBJ that I would define as 100% GFE.
I have met a few CBJ/DFK/DATY providers that were quite distant and I would not put them in the GFE catagory at all.

The best GFE all have a chameleon like ability to make me feel like I was their only lover. They adapt, find common ground and make the activity personal. One in particular, who no longer advertises, could easily make me fall in love- now that is GFE if you ask me.

One common "physical" point for me was that they kiss willingly LFK/DFK.

She's not kidding!

VERY Well done LamontCranston69, GREAT memory and this the THE ONLY SCALE we should all use. There is NO misunderstanding with this. So lets not water it down, we may want to add some to it, but leave that up to your own preferences, in my humble opinion, THIS IS IT !!!!

Tony

replies gents!

And thank you Lamont for introducing me/us to the "St Barts Scale" . Very useful!

I believe that at a minimum based on the responses ; no bbbj = no gfe, no lfk/dfk= no gfe, no daty= no gfe.

For me GFE includes the enthusiastic bbbj as well as cim, dfk, and fs. Of course I have been lucky enough to have some great chemistry with some great guys. Now I also insist on cleanliness and fresh breath so that makes the experience that much better and my guys are spoiled because they smell nice and clean and I just want to eat them up.
Each lady has her own limits and some things can make a situation ymmv.
XoXo,
Savanah

I disagree.  To me, GFE is all about how a woman makes you feel -- if she makes you feel like a john, then it doesn't matter how many sex acts are on the menu.  If she makes you feel special, desired, fulfilled, and satisfied, then a couple of limitations can and should be tolerated.  If you read the last couple of reviews I wrote, the contrast is pretty obvious.  Girl #1, very attractive with a body to die for, was cold and unresponsive.  I could barely maintain a conversation with her.  Everything was on the menu (except anal, which probably falls into the PSE category), but the whole experience felt like a business transaction.  I don't know if CIM was available, but frankly I couldn't have done it if I wanted to because there was no spark.  Is that GFE?  Girl #2, on the other hand, went for CBJ and had a couple of other limits, but in every other respect I felt as though we achieved some level of intimacy.  I can't wait to see her again.

GFE is more than an alphabet soup of sex acts -- that's why it's called an experience.  In the movie Sleeper, Woody Allen describes his brain as "my second favorite organ."  The girls who keep that in mind get my vote for GFE.  

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