Just finished my very first session as a hobbyist. She was pretty but I was annoyed that there was an extra fee on top of her donation to get FS. I did get a very nice covered BJTC at the end though. I think this is what's called upselling. I'd like to avoid upsellers in the future but I also don't want to run a potentially great provider off by being too explicit with details on the phone. Any advice from the hobbyists? I'd especially like to hear from the providers as well. If I know up what I'm paying for and how much I'm paying, it would help me not to waste either party's time. Please help.

My advice is to read the reviews here and do your research. I'm going to take a wild guess that the gal you saw was not reviewed here on TER.

Then look up the provider, read the list of services, price, and reviews. TER is a pretty good one, you should try it.

If you see an unreviewed provider, you are "Taking One For The Team" and must accept the consequences.

If you are looking for the "secret handshake" as to what questions to ask before booking to make sure you are going to get your BBBJTCNQNSWFIA, there isn't one. Any mention of specific acts will get you a dial tone.

Asking those kind of questions wouldn't help anyways, even if they were answerable. The honest provider will tell the truth, and the dishonest one will lie. How can you tell the difference?

I guess you live and learn. The guy below was right. I took one for the team. Thanks to you guys' advice here, I'm hoping it won't happen again. Thanks a bunch.

I guess you live and learn. The guy below was right. I took one for the team. Thanks to you guys' advice here, I'm hoping it won't happen again. Thanks a bunch.

Sorry to hear your first experience wasn't what you expected. From a ladies prospective I would agree with the gents that replied. Most of us are reputable and deliver as promised without a hidden agenda. I'm sure if you'll do more homework next time you'll have the time of your life!

Kind regards,

Lisa

The donation should never be a surprise. This kills the mood and makes the provider look like a pussy auctioneer. 2 lovely ladies with no surprises and excellent reviews here (look under provider name Raynah)pics upon request.
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