I'm new to hobbing and I'm trying to figure this whole thing out. I have been having good luck so far with some great providers, but in reading there ads I notice they have rates for 4hrs dinner dates, overnights, weekend, and so on. My questions to both providers and hobbiest is: How often do you made or have a dates that fall under the 4hrs plus range????????

There are so many things you can accomplish in an evening or overnight meeting that you just can't pull off in a one or two hour stint. So in this regard, if you book with the right lady you can have yourself a lot of fun on an extended appt.

However, you need to ask yourself what is your inspiration is for doing an extended appt. You'll be forking over $1000-$3000 for a dinner date or overnight type appt and a large portion of your time is spent on non bedroom type stuff.  Many guys are fine with this....the conversation, companionship, etc.. are a big part of what they are looking for.

Other guys, however, have much more of a bedroom activity mindset when they hire providers. I think these guys (myself included) might think extended appts are not worth the costs.  Personally I'd rather have a months worth of two hour sessions with some great ladies than a single overnighter. To me that is hobbying money well spent. Paying someone to eat and sleep doesn't seem logical to me. But again, for guys who value the conversation and companionship side of things extended appts might be money very well spent for them.


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