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[email protected] known for her trips to greece and back 
She is a great person, and my clients who have met her, all rave about her 
Mel.
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for us fat ladies. But, the correct language should be BBW's.
Thanks,
Mel
Dear John, no where in that post, I was trying to come off as a "bitch on wheels" lol I am home sick as a dog, feeling cranky, and very icky 
When I first read your post, yes, it caught me for a loop, in regards to what you said. But, when I reread it, the only person who was being insensitive, was me. So, please accept my apology
Sincerely,
Mel
kate, thanks for the support. I apologized, for I was the one out of line here. He has his own opinions and I have mine. I don't apologize for correcting him on his labeling, I apologized for starting a flame war (if there was going to be one started).
Megan- I generally like your posts, but I have to disagree with your own statement: alot of people don't like heavy women. Now, to me, alot means to me 90% of 100%, which is entirely not the case. Maybe you could have phased it: some people have preferences for small women and some for big women. Just like I had pointed out to the gentleman above, on his labeling.
Regardless if we are all small, medium build, or big, RESPECT for others is the key word here. To be honest, I want to be judged by how I am as a person, how I treat my clients, not only how big my beautiful round booty is
Enough Said.
Addendum:
WE ALL need to remember, it's NOT what you say, it's how you say it.
Mel.
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if you are going to say something, do it respectfully...why waste your time in being rude, mean, and crude (not to you, Megan, just in general via the board). My mother always said: "If you dont'have anything kind to say to someone, then button your lip, and don't say it at all" Also, if you are going to say something, be prepared to take some heat. I certainly have to take heat day to day, regardless if I were friends with people OR not. Yes, I agree with you, I am not here to make friends. But, I will tell you this: without them, my life would be uncomplete to a point.
Also, I realize that your intentions was NOT to be rude, but lets all agree that if we say something, it could be done more tactfully (that goes for everyone, and not pointing fingers..), now, I were to have said something about someone's body type, race, creed, etc. I am pretty sure that someone would have corrected me, and I would have taken it and apologized for my mistakes.
And, it goes back to the word: Respect. Respect means to me, treating other's how you want to be treated. Some people are very good about respecting other's, and some are not (again, not pointing fingers. Now, maybe I am wrong in believing in that word respect, but that is how I was brought up: in the new school.
Anyways, everything is all water under the bridge, and to be honest, it's an issue that I had pointed, stated, and got over it
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Hi Kate, In response to your above post. That client has been banned from our service and he knows it. He was and has been our do not book list for quite sometime. No one should treat anyone that way. I do look out for the saftey of my girls, and they have a right to refuse to see any client for any reason they see fit. As for the 1/2 hour appointments, most of my girls prefer them, they are not like you, they are in this buisness strictly for the money and don't want to get to know the clients on the level you do. Our clients who do 1/2 hour dates are also not looking for the type of experience you provide, they just want a quick escape from their everyday life.
As you said, everyone has different tastes, wants and needs.
We provide a service just like you do, so please stop putting us down, and making nasty inuendos about us in your posts.
You run your buisness the way you want to and we run ours the way we want to. I understand you don't approve about the way we do things, but please keep the comments to yourself. I have let this go for quite some time but I needed to speak up as I am tired of the way you always put us down. It just makes you look petty and mean, and I know you don't mean for it to look that way but it does. If you have any problems with me or R/S please call me directly and keep it off the boards.
Jill
*sigh*
I just wish all of life's lessons could be learned in such a pleasurable way
M.