In speaking with a few other providers it is evident that some within the hobby community seek to leverage their TER standing and a 10/10 or other high review in exchange for non menu items or discounted donations.  

Gents, I want to remind you that reviews are in place to protect you and other gents from bait and switch, ladies who are shady and a host of other things. When you ask a provider to compromise her donation or request extras in exchange for a "fantastic" review you are compromising the entire review process and potentially making it so others don't get what they might expect based upon your prior feedback.

Just think of it this way. Let's say you rarely eat out. You save up your money and decide to go with a place on yelp which has glowing reviews. Time strapped and knowing your spouse is a vegan and wants no part of your planned meat filled good time you sneak off and are so excited. There is the thrill of knowing you are squeezing out some alone time and also getting something not on the everyday menu.  You decide on the place, you have been eyeing it for sometime and how could you go wrong so many say it's fantastic. It's billed as a glowing environment and premium beef with an extensive wine list. You show up and it's a local dive, with Not dry aged waygu but instead freezer burned chuck meat  and crappy beer. You would regret more than the crappy meal the fact that you had wasted your time and that those before you had clearly not been honest.

Please let's keep reviews honest and fair! It's simply wrong to attempt to leverage what is meant to portray genuine experiences as something they are not just because a lady agrees to discount her donation. A better practice is to simply reach out and say something like. I have been eyeing you for some time. My hobby budget is x is there a way you could work with me. Then after the session if you enjoyed go ahead and write that glowing out of this world review. the same way I wouldn't want a lady to say a gent was great company if he were mean or unpleasant. Please, don't write inflated reviews sply because a provider agreed to compromise.

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Indeed so long as that's what you are expecting

This is not the first time this topic has come up, and I am sure it will not be the last.  
There has been plenty of posts accusing providers cutting deal for 10/10 reviews  

Until the ladies stop thinking that being the top rated provider in a city or TER list and only having 10/10 reviews, is the only way to keep their business going this will never stop. I have the feeling this is more of an ego trip for them then anything else.  

Let's face it, are you are trying to tell me that provider can be perfect for ever hobbist she see's, every time.
Sorry I call BULL SHIT on that.

Why can't a baseball player hit a home run every time he is at the plate??
Why can't Tom Brady throw a perfect touchdown pass every time he is on the field.
Because it is impossible, so is multiple 10/10 reviews in a row.  

I know I have been asked to not write a review unless I can give them a 10/10 and I am sure that many other guys have had the same thing happen to them.  

Also take into account that some hobbyist are going to write reviews like this, either are afraid they will get blacklisted if they don't' or they think that doing this will get some that special treatment down the road. We have seen provider complain about reviews they do not like, saying it never happened or the guys is a stalker, yes this can happen at times but not every time.

I know TER has changed the rules of what is required to get a 10 on preference which might help cut problem like this.  
Also they seem to be less willing to take down reviews providers don't like.

Let see what happens now.

 
Just my 2 cents on the matter  

Well said !  
I have seen some providers that have all 10/10
And not all men rate the same or have the same connection as another. I know my reviews range from 7s-10s and I'm okay with that !
By the way guys, I'm semi retired  
But I don't think I'd ever fully retire, I enjoy it and it's benefits too much lol.
I miss many of you, and hope to see you in the near future.
On another note, I think some of you though I changed my name and I'm hiding my identity. This is untrue. I did take my site down temporarily for my discretion during my time away from my sexy craft !
I'm working on some other projects in life that require a lot of time
Their for I don't have the time , right now being a companion demand. If I've seen you before, you can email me to keep in touch
Sincerely, Paige Lynn XXO

I put more weight in a review based on the narrative than the #/#.  I depend on an honest reviews.  Some girls have not lived up to the hype of their TER reviews. I'm sure those girls weren't too happy with my reviews of them but I need to keep my reviews honest.  That being said.  Most reviews on TER have been accurate.

I recently made scathing a review on a purchase I made online.It was an expensive item and I wrote a shity review for the company base out of NY. The company had their atty send me a letter from NY telling me that my review was false and untrue and that I defamed them.They said that if I didn't remove the review that I would be sue in NY for damages. So instead of dealing with a law suit out of state I removed the review.

This company had a shit ton of reviews all 5 star. I have lost my faith in any reviewing system period.

NOBODY expects the Spanish Inquisition!

Trying to negotiate a lower price?  Saying, as you suggest, "my hobby budget is x, is there a way you could work with me?" seems to be negotiation.  Isn't negotiation asking for a reduced donation?  Isn't negotiation frowned upon by 99.99% of providers?  What options are available that can be "worked with"?

Last month you yourself tweeted,"Fellas: Please don't ask for photos or for a reduced donation. Both are in very poor taste and honestly insulting".  Wouldn't you be insulted if you were approached with a counter offer of someone's hobby budget x? Not trying to be difficult, but would appreciate an explanation that reconciles this contradiction.What alternatives are there?

My impression, gleaned from years of reading this board, is that if a provider's donation exceeds one's budget, they should simply move on.  Isn't that the party line? Your suggestion would bring about other problems.  

I'd be interested in other ladies' opinions regarding the plausibility of this situation.

especially with a lovely lady on my lap!

If it were someone I had been seeing on a regular basis say 4-6 times a year or monthly and I knew they could only allocate x dollars towards play time I may consider extending an exception to them. As with any service business there are exceptions to every rule. If I have a loyal client whose company I genuinely enjoy I will absolutely work with them so long as their request is within reason. Also I have folks who can't use cash so we opt for other methods such as e gifts. I once had a gent whom I was seeing very regularly lease me a car as part of our full donation alternative. We would see one another several times per month half would be in traditional form and the car lease and related expenses covered the rest.  

As a general rule you should not try to negotiate! If a lady is beyond your financial limitations yes you should probably look elsewhere. The let's not ask for a discount is a general rule and especially when it's a new friend is not a good idea. In the same way gents don't want sessions to be approached with anything less than 100% effort and for the full time. Providers want to be gifted in full for their effort and energy.  

These are just my methods and I don't speak for anyone else. But if we keep this hobby founded on mutual respect, sincerity and above all else good NSA fun. Everyone wins

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Did you check out the link that I provided?

I confess I didn't click on the link. Now my brain is seared by that. Bring the Inquisitor! (and a beer)

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I don't think it will help the problem, as it's rates on services offered not on how enjoyable one found their time. The only girls that have the availability to rate high are the girls that offer all services.  
If a guy requests cbj, even though she normally offers bbbj; regardless of if  he had a fabulous time the girl gets rated poorly.  
I also think it works the other way to. Guys try and stand over  girls especially newer providers treating them poorly and trying to manipulate them into offering services not on the menu so they don't get a negative review.