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ajoi2you See my TER Reviews 634 reads
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a lady re-sent the photo someone sent her to me. Stated she had met him before but based on his review of me she emailed to ask what I knew about him, I was like didn't you say you met him already? I'd known him for a few years and told him to stop sending his photo.

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damnrightitsanalias1352 reads

Well reviewed provider insisted on a photo of client ( showing face ) as part of verification process. I had already provided TER credentals and a provider reference. The client photo was a deal breaker for me. All i could think of is how useful it would be for LE and how embarassing it would be if all the provider's contact information showed up on the internet ( as has happened in DC,Phoenix and Atlanta.) i thought i would solicit input on the issue.

All I have to do is send the lady a picture of Sasquatch (Big Foot) we look the same.

Only kidding, I agree if they want a photo no way, call it off. A lot of ladies hide their faces and they claim they hide their for privacy and safety then they should show the same respect to you.
If not move on.


P.S. I wish I was kidding about the Sasquatch thing ! ! !

Establish what your comfort level is.
Don't compromise it.  You did the right thing for you.

When I began I asked for a photo and refused to see anyone over forty (lol).  I didn't know any better but I met people that I could be comfortable with and it allowed me to be uninhibited and free.  Each individual has a different approach to this sort of thing.  Some providers would rather forgo "business" in favor of meeting those with whom it can truly feel like a date.  Despite the fact that that can mean rejection its a super positive for the clients who don't mind the risk of exposure and do spend time with her.

Both clients and providers should meet people whose terms they can agree with forgetting quickly about the rest.

-- Modified on 8/5/2012 4:30:24 PM

Completely off the charts especially with the new laws. If she won't take your refs and TER Whitelist,her loss, plenty of fish in the sea.

Regarding the new laws, I find it hard to believe that any gentleman is giving out his real name, place of employment etc. Risk is not worth the reward.

Not ok to send photo. I do not show my face, why should you?
Speaking to the last response, it is ok to give out info just be aware who you are giving it out to.

Best of luck!
Brooke

I don't really see the point of requesting a photo. That's even more worthless than requesting you to email a scan of your ID (which was recently discussed on the general board). Either one just screams LE or scam in my opinion.

Posted By: Nyx_GG
I don't really see the point of requesting a photo. That's even more worthless than requesting you to email a scan of your ID (which was recently discussed on the general board). Either one just screams LE or scam in my opinion.
wow, good stuff, with new laws it is tough to break into this type of fun, but I plan to stick to independents who do not ask for pics no way, no agencies either, as you cannot trust them...stick to your comfort level and your own personal list, provider is in control if she wants to see you, if she does not it really is her lost(assuming you are a great guy and a respectful one)

a lady re-sent the photo someone sent her to me. Stated she had met him before but based on his review of me she emailed to ask what I knew about him, I was like didn't you say you met him already? I'd known him for a few years and told him to stop sending his photo.

Be safe in all you do

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