Because of there looks or their skills?  

Your thought if any?

I seek a certain attitude in the gals I see.  It could be adventurousness, or wittiness, or some other quality that strikes my fancy.

It might come through how they write, or how they look, or pose themselves.

It's hard to explain exactly.

There are very few hobbyist I would ever want to meet and have a drink with but you sir are one of them