Hello Gents & Fans,  
 
   I'm sure you're all wondering what I mean by the question "Where did the value go?"  That can have a lot of answers.  For years I and others have given tons of great discounts to mainly benefit you Gents.  It seems that after given many discounts many Gents assume that's there new rate all the time.  That's not the case.  My value is held high in great standings and lately I and other great Providers are being devalued and blown off with no respect of cancelling if they need to.  I unlike others don't get any cancellation fees or do I demand/request pre bookings.  I'm very low volume and loved treating all of you with great respect because I VALUE you.  I'm now asking where did all my value go?  So in turn I'm giving my value back to myself....xoxoxoxox  Please respect the value and old school principles that  I give you. I am a true networker and also "Queeny" "New England's Favorite Porn Star" without the Porn Star rates.  I hope I didn't offend any of you great Gents in my question and my opinion of an answer.  I would luv to hear your answer on "Where did the value go?"  
 
                                                      Luv Queeny

A great value at any price. You are the Queen (y) .... always fun taking care of business Sith you sweets. Priceless

The "value" of a commodity - a car, head of lettuce, or chain saw - is easily determined by quality and comparative price. Using the term "value" in reference to ANY sex work is problematic, as the "value" of services provided is VERY YMMV. No shows/price haggles are unacceptable in ANY level of business. When there is such a personal aspect, these inconsiderations are even less acceptable, and show a level of expectation and disrespect which should not be tolerated. That's my general take. On a more personal level, the "value" of YOUR company is WELL beyond ANY number, hunny. WELL BEYOND. Anyone who would blow you off is NUTS.

I think it may be more related to the hobby and the current economic cycle, rather than you personally.

the "There Seem To Be Lots More Assholes Now Than There Used To Be" factor.  

As someone who saw Queeny before she became Queeny, I have stumbled across her "value days or weeks" in the past and tried my best to take advantage and see her.  I believe Queeny would agree I have never assumed the value donation was the donation going forward.  I wish times allowed me to have disposable (and hideable) income thus allowing me to visit regularily at any time.  A previous poster stated people (men) have gotten nastier.  I do not believe this to be the case.  I believe there is a fixed percentage of aholes and sometimes they show up in unison.  Queeny knows I have been a surporter of hers and have greatly appreciated her value days these last few years and I wish her continued success.

I had recently raised my hour to 500. I do offer multiples greek strap on bbj cim. If you take note every review states how much LONGER they stayed than the hour. Where i wasnt ever able to get any guests in and out in an hour, Or even close for that matter. When some one just gave me hundreds of dollars i just feel wicked rude being like ok, Stop talking to me and go! i kinda feel like well if we talk and extra 30 min and they take a 25 min shower then hell i help them with getting some powder on and spray deodorant. i can t have traffic at my apt any how , so rushin guys out isnt important, But i now had zero complaints with the 500 per hour thing. I am more interested in sticking to massages only now anyway cuz it hurts my neck and legs n back less. {yes again i have crippling fibro, which doesnt by any means go away if you lay around and in fact its highly recomemended you stay up and moving and keep normal schedule} So the appts are in a way good for me because escercize is great for fibro. BUT at same time I do have a tad less pains just doing massage. If i get jerked accidentally wrong way my neck and hip flexers and my side i just get wide spread aches n pains {fibromyalia} i cant handle alot of full service.  
 nI understand your aggravation with the guys.
 I had one guy last week  request 2 hour, where 1 hour is 500 then 2 hour is 900. He didnt bat an eye lash and said fine see you wed. Now mind you he been here before and again overstayed by an hour and i had to work hard he didnt take breaks. Fine by me as long as i dont have to do these more than 1 to 2 times a week. A second regular says ok to the 1000 for 2 hour plus dinner.  
 THEN when he is here he co erces me to agree to 2 sessions a month for half my rent, so that would be 2 sat all day hang outs 5 or more hours we hang, next thing you know he is asking me to do 2 saturdays for 900? 900 is half my rent!
 we do like 2 sessions, greek, some prostate massage some regular massage.  
I said yes ok, cuz i felt uncomfortable he was pushin that . i called after yesterday and said no, these are my new rates, if you cant afford it, get a massage for 160 !
 I dont NEED the escort appts!
 i make enough with my 250 massage bbj. I also have a few that do pay 900 - 100 which is all i need . If no one can afford it, i dont even care, ! i will do my small close guys that pay then stick to massage.
 Another one calls and i say its 900 for 2 hours, Again he gives lecture about "remeber to be good to the people who been good to you!"
 What ? when i was in a homeless shelter 3 year ago after gettn release from jail then paid my hotel fee AND SAVED 1st last and security for a beach house. which was 1650 times 3. all the while saving for something other than an air mattress. WQERE these people there to help? NO i have no one to thank for how good my home life is now BUT myself and my hard work. with escorting and doing spa style appts. with alot of greek! hahah.  
 But I agree with you , I also was in porn at 22 11 years ago. i also did my massage at 22, 11 years ago queeny. I agree there is some wack behavior we have to deal with where again, you just feel like a door mat. I know for me, I dont get my nails done I do my wax nails it all myself, i dont have a car. I am by no means greedy with any my regulars or clients.
 I dont make enough to have a savings My condition with chronic pain causes such fatigue try as i might i cant get up some days, I also am in therapy for border line personality disorder bipolar, adhd, for example now i am getting off one med and onto another . The week has been a struggle. and i am isolating , cuz i am bad company, for any one.  
 The way i experience actually guys calling and challenging me when i say my new rates. Or giving me a lecture on how I should do it for half that but JUST for them,. Well them along with 16 other regulars whom ALL think they are my atf.

By my postings. Go read my reviews and i havent managed to scare them away yet, there are plenty whom FULLY understand my work ethic. I may post and share my woes or struggles from the escort perspective and in relation to the biz. However with close to 90 great reviews. It is more than CLEAR TO any one whom has one iota of brain power that I DO NOT even talk during a session.  
 I talk before, and it is always otc. For me i do not accept the talking to be something worthy of a pay ment of several 100 per hour, I talk before and after but use what i call fair weather conversation. So to all the people who say pm to me. The larger majority have read my reviews and can see that when it is an hour being paid several 100 bucks i am never gonna bring any my grievances to them and am there to be a fantasy and I too enjoy the break from my real life and all the stress sadness whatever i deal with.
 So here is another response one guy gives yesterday . He calls i say "MY rates have changed >"  
I say its "900 for 2 hour minimum"  
 He responds.  
"But it was 150 last time. "  
 ???? i mean come on! I agree with you i have only had one client be polite and not question my choice to charge a certain amount.  
 I had alot of stress and arguing or disputing the new rates from all others.  
For me i dont need the money from escorting from them and have a few close regulars and one s.d. and quite frankly if they think they can get a better deal i am happy for them. and good riddance.
 I am doing fantastic with my massages and am happier sticking to primarily that any how. I know I wont get as many clients for my high 2 hour min escort price i have now. And i am perfectly ok with that. ... but i understand i am basically having guys tell me they find me worth this, or i owe them because they are this and that.  
I had another guy call on other hand yesterday and he was also kind to me about it. . He was some one we d been almost about to meet for a year and finally did a week ago. He was nice. Every one else, they claim they think i am awsome, If I am so good at it then why dont i have a car or money to go the nail salon? if they think i rule then why do tthey want to chew down my price so i am forced to puch myself farther. I agree there is not any value to valueing a good provider. Granted i am sure once i store up my chi , {energy} and regain my full mojo maybe i will feel like seeing more again and again do multiples , pse, greek, bbj cim, for 300. like i have many a time period in past.
 i agree, if you give a good deal from time to time, Would it hurt to be respected that you cannot always operate at that rate. You get tired. I like having a reasonable rate and giving deals, but when your struggling cuz EVERY one thinks they are special. AND every guy wants a discount but stays well over the hour. yes it has become a devoid of value community, I am shocked at the guys arguing with me and challenging my new rate. ... I would never go into strega and say can i speak to owner. "um sir , this lobster, tell you what i will give you  25 for 2, not 25 for one. " I mean seriuosly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Seriously, much of what you are experiencing and writing about is pure economic dynamics.  
Many younger girls in the biz now due to the poor economy, poor jobs market, so set yourself up to do incalls/outcalls, and with more supply than demand, they all race to the bottom on price to attract business.  There is still a niche for higher priced, higher quality experiences (and always will be- in all business- Cadillac is doing great) for which there is lower volume, but the higher price point makes up for it for the provider.  
Problem is all the men see the MANY ads for lower priced girls on BP and think that is where the market is for everyone, and it ain't so.  
While you and I haven't met, I can totally understand where you are coming from, and I give you a ton of credit for being willing to post what you did.  
Hope your feeling better, and be safe
Vern

like every response to every thread is a crock of b.s. cuz maybe they need the 2 or 3 extra numb skulls, that believe it. I know for me i am crazy and proud of it. Some of the most creative people suffer from mental illness, Marilyn monroe, frank sinatra.  
 I KNOW who I am and I know how good at escorting i am, So for me if i get in a discussion with another lady in my age and status group. I too undertsand i was in porno dans films, I was the girl in the extreme mag ad for the clubs, I was doing thai shiatsu out of an apt in southie ten years ago. I get it, Its not the same . To respond to me telling my new rates by saying, "well last time it was 150/. "  
 i dont even understand that rudeness. I never in million years on my end would have any thing to say back to a business person informing me thier new rates. Especially if I enjoyed thier products. I love good raw oysters, and I would go to mare in north end again, They cost more because , things cost money , you cant get fresh oysters shipped from well fleet every day on ice in a truck, You can get oysters at a small crappy townie  bar too and they have black shit in eem and you get a stomach ache, BUt would you go to mare and tell em . well i get wellfleet oyseters a buck a pievce over here, they are gross,  
 But can i get your oysters you just spent and arm n leg to get here to me fresh on ice can i just pay you same as the crappy groos place prices. is that ok?
     but again we are escorts and we will ALWAYS deal with abuse , negativity, and be the butt of the guys jokes. And worse, some guys serial killers especially particularly go after escorts as thier prey to mutilate and murder. so its not exactly ever gonna be a day in the park. for any girl. that signs up for this.
 like one guy was here last week he asked me so. "do you work out?'
have you ever thought of trying a cleanse?
 he was here for a massage, but to me, i am confused when guys come for massages and they act like they despice you entire hour, yet they are paying you.  
 to ask me if i work out? look at my godam pics in my weekly ads do i work out? what the fuck, geesh thanks fuckn loser.
 so. i get that some people run thier business where they are ALWAYS on. in character. for me I am in character for the minute the session starts, til it ends, I dont stay in character around my clients after the appt they paid for, My personality in real life , its much less work and less tiring to be that person.  
 to act like a sex starved tigress that is ready to tip a guys pants off for an hour. and that i love getting my ass pounded . over and over, and i love givin bbj til my neck hurts.
 yes its an effort and i dont mind if i am gettn good money. but dammit once the donation is up and the times up. i am not gonna still blow the guy, and like wise i am not gonna be a ginormous bullshitter in every response, I have managed to attract alot of clients all types, cute, old,reserved, nerdy, funny, rich, broke, i met all kinds,  no one seems to mention or mind what i am like in my real or personal life, That really shouldnt matter, If your doing good and providing service well , your personal time behaviors arent valid as to wether i will give a good pse multiples greek  hour session. That easy, but acting like a bimbo slut all day every day and in responses to discussions, sure i will stay in bimbo horny slut mode for the appts, i am sure as hell  not actin like that 24/7. and the same guys that say oh i wouldnt see a lady that has an outspoken silly, off wall, persona on the boards,
 those are the same clients that also think you REALLy like them and call you to say hi for no apparent reason every week. Those are the same clowns that cant seperate escorts that are acting, to create an experience, and they think its reality, its not reality, and thats why i am myself in my responses to threads, this is a valid point and i agree with her. Dont mean they are gonna listen change or care what we say, but hey! maybe one or two guys will read it and change thier minds before they give thier atf a hard time next time. maybe they will read it and swear at us under thier breath on other side ciomputer.  
who knows. all i know is the guys that i meet understand the difference between me as a human and me as angel exotic who can knock your socks off in the bedroom and give a kick ass massage.  
in real life i can be a little slutty too but not every min of every hour, normal conversations are good too. And being crazy is an asset to any field involving being creative music, adult entertainemnt, art.