Or are other hobbyists slightly turned off when we read from a provider how she was totally booked for a week or two and can't wait to meet more people.  I know we all can't be the only appointment of the day, but I really don't want to know that I may be number 40 for the week!!  It makes it sound less like a liaison and more like a factory.  Other than that the provder may seem to be extremely attractive and desirable.

Just my $.02

It seems that this is a catch 22 for a provider especially if she is travelling.If she appears not to be very busy then we hobbyists tend to think that perhaps she isn't very good or she would be more popular.On the other hand,if she appears to be very busy,then we may feel that we are part of an assembly line.Damned if she does,and damned if she doesn't.

"The less available you are, the more desirable you are" is a good strategy if used by someone who offers a limited schedule. The client then wants to be one of the "lucky few." However, the strategy doesn't work if limited availability is due to a "there's enough of me for everybody" strategy.

thirsty

You are exactly correct, Vegas Bob.

And may I add, extremely observant!  You cannot be further from the truth; damned if you do and damned if you dont!

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Mr. Bastard....and I mean that with all due respect. LOL! I am just teasing you. I pondered just how to address you without sounding disgruntled. ~giggles~ Would I say Mr. Fat, Fat Bastard or Mr.Bastard...they all sound pretty offensive so please know I address you as such because that is your screen name, and not because I am being a smart a$$.

I cannot imagine anyone who would see that many people in any given week. I have always thought it polite to thank gentlemen for keeping my dance card full. It is never booked to that compacity I can assure you. That is not my style. I believe in making the meeting special for all concerened. I believe in cleanliness as well as having impeccable hygiene. I hope by saying I was booked people realize that this does not mean because a girl is popular she is seeing 20 people a week.

I believe in quality over quantity. I prefer longer dates to shorter ones especially. I had no idea that this message could be concieved in such a way. Yikes. Thank you for making that point for girls like me who do tend to use that kind of verbiage. I guess I should rethink a more graceful way to say thank you for making my week eventful, and not coming off like a revolving door.

I admit I am young and still learning...but oh how I loved to be taught. Does this mean because I have broken a cardinal rule that I have to be spanked? If so.....ummmm.......Oh well it is off to work I go soon..if the select gentleman seeing me tonight are reading this...DO NOT bring your whips or floggers...that is where I draw the line... LOL! Have a good day everyone. xoxoox Much Affection To You All.

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Hott Stacey

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Oh my goodness, Stacey. How perfectly put!

I was also completely oblivious that some may misinterpret the word, "booked" with the terms of having MANY clients in that particular time frame.

They key with me is to always keep things minimal in order to stay fresh, full of energy and most importantly my best for my client!

When I tease and say, "please help me fill my slots", or "I have a couple of more availabilities", I am simply refering to the number of hours, and not "friends"; as I prefer to spend more time with one "friend", as opposed to more clients.

I also will have to work on that.

Interesting topic!

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Thank you for pointing out the conundrum that exists.  I guess you can trace its roots back to the 'Stud-Slut' comparison (no offense to any studs or sluts out there).  If you're very busy people must think you're very good.  I wasn't implying anything to anyone in particular, it was just the feeling I received from reading info about people being busy.  I suppose if someone saw 1 or 2 people a day, being booked solid for a month wouldn't be difficult at all.

Thanks for the $.02 in return

I cannot imagine seeing more than a gent at a given location in one day.  Hotel staff is well aware of the traffic and I most enjoy being with men who demand a private encounter created for them.  I need a complete overhaul after an encounter, down to washing my hair (usually it gets pretty sticky!).  I could not bother washing and drying it more than once in a day, it drives me nuts to do it once a day.  But, that is just me, many providers operate differently (i.e., 1/2 hour appointments).

I will admit that I sometimes see more than one gent in a day when traveling, but the majority of the time I book with one gent per day for an extended session.  It is sometimes more difficult to firm up plans on the road then at home.

But, I guess different strokes for different folks.  As long as guys get what they expect does it matter?  Many guys are willing to accept a half hour pit stop for an agency encounter, so obviously there are guys who don't mind being one of many in a day. (I had one guy tell me it excited him to think a woman was with a few guys before him!)

I usually book my available time in advance but feel I owe it to the gentleman I see to be a little low key about it-after all, if each guy should feel his time is special then I would not want him to know he was just one of a few the previous week.  That discounts them all to just being a bunch of Ben Franklin's.

Regardless, there is something for everyone in the Hobby World.

Just my 2 cents-they are All special!

Kate

As long as everyone is doing what they want and protecting themselves as needed, it does not matter to me.

I hope you didn't think I was at all DOWNING anyone who doesn't mind seeing 10 + guys a day.

I personally, was just stating that I am not a revolving door; which I am not

We seem to be on the same page as far as that goes.

"Different Strokes for Different Folks". (Lovely sitcom, BTW

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Damn, I would love to see 40 ladies a week. So, ladies, would you think ill of me if I saw 40 of you in 7 days?

The booked status doesn't bother me.  However, I do tend to shy away from the "you must follow the following forty-nine creterion if you want me to consider you" situations.  I kind of want encounters to be friendly.  Sometimes, it feels like I start wondering if it will be friendly with some many "do this, don't do that" prerequisites.  I don't mean screening or act things.  It is just a vibe thing that I perceive in some posts/adds/websites.  It kind of makes me feel like I am going to be judged in ways that are harsh.  Oh well, perhaps it is just me being overly sensitive.

Regards,

JT

I like to spread appointmens out during a week spand.  i don't like the double booking thing or the revolving door situation.  I tell guys I am booked some times because I am.  Not because I have one appointment after another.  I like to book an hour appointment and leave an hr in between.  That way I can jump in the shower, freshen up my make up and hair, and freshen up the room too, make sure the refreshments are hot/cold.  I hate rushing around to get ready for another appointmet so I just book appointments very spread out.  That way there isn;t the revolving door factor.  I also joke and say it is pretty gross to have one guy leaving and one guy arriving at the same time.  The guy arriving is thinking "Oh my gosh!  I feel realy special now".  Not a good way to set the mood for any friend who takes the time to visit you.  That is how I book.  

In other words if I say I am booked. It doesn't necessarily mean I've see, I don't know how many guys.  But that I know if i want to give you my full attention and treat you right. Then making an appoinntment on another day would be best.  I had no idea as well as many other ladies that saying "I am booked". may be looked upon poorly.  Thanks.  It is good to know for future reference.

Tia

I've seen that on some websites, and sometimes I feel like I get to be a little that way too, but don't know how to help it. Invariably the gent who does one little thing wrong, is going to wind up doind fifteen things wrong during a session. I'm really not very delicate, nor picky, but there are definitely some things that bug me.

Grabbing my delicate pink parts as hard as you can, squeezing really hard, grinding really hard, being too rough down there and hurting me... ack!  Biting my tongue... DOUBLE ack (why does anyone do that? It does not feel good!).  Trying to do *things* without protection.... TRIPLE QUADRUPLE ACK.  Sometimes it seems to be Murphy's Law. Most sessions I go without saying a peep about "don'ts", but the one gent who does one thing does them all. Then, a lady will invariably come out of the session frustrated, and post some silly thing on her website with a big list of do's and don'ts because of the bad behavior (albeit perhaps inadvertantly bad!), of one person.

Try not to let those things get to you and realize that most often they exist due to the lowest common denominator.

Altho that tongue biting thing really does drive me crazy (PET PEEVE ALERT LOL), and if I could offer one general rule of advice for gents, it would be... start out MORE gentle, if a lady wants it a bit rougher she will surely let you know. Start out *soft* and build up. Don't start off manhandling a girl like she is made out of silly putty... we aren't. I often like things a bit rough but not "pulling-off-parts" rough!

I hope that makes sense....

Hugs*
Tamara

I would be proud of you !!!!!  I'm getting teary eyed just thinkin about it ... where's a tissue ...

Ya lost me.  I was talking about issue like "it must be a five star hotel", you must have a hand tailored suit," you must drive the top of the line Lexus" type stuff.

JT

you know i understand what you mean, but personally I'm really scared about legal issues and i find if I take care of all that on my website when i meet someone and know that they have read my site, I can be much more comfortable and at ease during the date. I know that they won't do anything that will make me feel legally compromised. I'm a very sweet, silly and friendly person but i have no idea how to make that come across on my website. My website is mostly for covering any legal issues that could come up.
sorry had to edit the pic, it wasn't showing up

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