Gentlemen, do you prefer when she reaches out to confirm an appointment or do you send an email or text to confirm?
I always reach out as I like to have things confirmed a few days prior ….

I usually prefer if the provider does the confirming; it says they’re organized and not going to ghost (hopefully).

usually a week ahead, and then a day ahead.

Being somewhat alpha, I always confirm early on the day of the meet. This (mostly) avoids misses. If the lady confirms first, it is a welcome surprise.

100% with you on that. If lady doesn't confirm her prearranged dates you can expect surprises if not this time, then in the future. There'd be sudden this and sudden that and not every once in a great while but more like every other time.

I like it a few days in advance by the lady…

I always reach out if I don't hear back 24 hours before date. I take a day off when I see a provider and I'd like a backup plan if she cancels and trust me, I get canceled on too often. My time is money too. Last time an ATF (former now) canceled on me I had to scramble to find a replacement and booked a pricey visiting porn star. No regrets. We make time for tbr provider, all we expect in return is mutual understanding that it is also our time too.

I totally agree it all goes both ways and we need to be in touch ( not everyday before the apt ) but at least a day or two before. We all make time for each other.