Affection - showing it, receiving it, feeling it, touching
Differentiation - independence, self knowledge, self acceptance, generosity
Engagement - tring new things together, shared interests, caring for one another
Openness/Trust - communication, openness, trust
Enthusiasm - interest in partner, enjoyment of the relationship, vitality
Transcendent experience in love and sex - experience of merging and completion, peak experience, ecstasy, feeling time stops
Eroticism -sensuousness, sexual openness, sexual communicativeness, good sex life attraction, sexual playfulness, sexual enjoyment.