If you read my post on the national board, I agreed.

Mel aka Ayoungblackwomanhere I also feel that a woman should run her business, any which way, that she wants. It doesn't neccesarily have to reflect society's view (No-the lady in question, doesn't reflect my view). We all need to remember that everyone has preferences. Some may choose to live by their preferences, some may not. In my case, I cater  men of all races, colors, creeds, disabilities, martians, big, tall, small, medium, I could really careless, as long as he is a gentleman with me, from the beginning to the very end of our meeting But it doesn't mean that we should do a "witch hunt" of any person, who feels a certain way, either. Every single person who posts on this board, has preferences, in one way or another. We have been discriminated against, at some time in our lives, maybe for the way we look, to how we speak, to how we dressed. But the key is to remain in control, and rise above it, and go about your business, and also in some cases, take your business elsewhere, where you will be appreciated. As for the comment's made by "None-White", it really disgusted me! For he was doing the very same thing, which he accused the lady in question of. I also, want to state that NOT all of us African-Americans feel that way.  So, lets all take a look at ourselves, before pointing a finger, for we are not perfect in any way. Also, we must learn to accept people, regardless of what their personal views may be, for it doesn't correct the situation, either. Anyways, just my 0.02 cents.

Mel



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Well put, I beieve this age of political correctness has gone a weeeeeeeeeeee bit too far !!
  imho...as i have staated before , us guys PRE-screen before the gals, we dont like what we see , we ove on !!...ie: big tits , little tits , bbw,thin , blonde , brunettes..ect, ect, ect...its called PERSONAL preference.
 the girls not being selling coffee or (taxi rides) they are offering the ultimate intimate encounter. because they are selling are we to believe they dont have limits or personal preferences of thier own ??
 because some gal decided to save some guys some time and list her preferences , it causes a thread and a chat (i think) session, how very sad, it really boggles the mind.
  i guess when i see , after a hobbiest sees a provider and he goes back and explains  to the 10-20 providers (total B.S. wont happen) why he passed over , bypassed, eliminated, them , i might see a issue ,till then the whole issue is a crock

Someone has a personal choice, regardless of where that choice originates.  It's their body.  At least she states what her preferences are up front - would guys prefer they schedule with her then get turned away after having made time to see her?

When a man walks into a public place, like a bar, and sees a female that interests him, what happens if he finds out she's got a preference which does not include him?  Is she automatically obligated to be interested in him because of equal rights?  What is stopping that man from seeking out another woman who might actually prefer to see him?

What's next?  Affirmative action for escorting?  "Sorry, I can't see you today because you're white.  I have to fill my quota of Asian and Latino today."

In case anyone thinks this, I'm not a racist at all.  Total opposite.  But I do believe in the right of personal choice and don't get upset if an individual has a different opinion than I do.  If someone wants to change the opinions of others, it's better done on a larger scale.

I saw correlations to this that an escort is providing a service and, therefore, must be blind to race, creed, or otherwise.  How stupid for those people to talk about it as if these women have no connection with their own bodies or have no right to seek that which they prefer or that which they find the most pleasure in, regardless of where that choice comes from.  They are not obligated to do take anyone's money for any reason they decide.