Not for nothing I'm not hobbying every week. Maybe a few times a year as I like to treat myself and this site and / or board is the best place to keep up to date with what's going on in the hobbying / provider community.  But as of recent the boards have been full of drama and narcissism, which I have neither the time or need with my busy life. I like hobbying for many reasons, but my # 1 is, is that I'm not necessarily paying for a woman's company but more like paying not to have to deal with drama and bullshit. But then I come on here and all I read is drama and bullshit, everyone is bashing each other, stories of blackmail, providers knocking down other providers. But the thing is, it's all the same people, particularly the providers that are involved, makes me loose complete interest in seeing you in a professional manner, it's such a turn off. In this hobby men aren't just paying for a service, it'd be safe to assume that 90% of hobbyists can pick up a girl at a bar just fine, we're paying for your discression. The providers that are always involved in the drama on these boards are exactly the ones I know to stay away from. There are a few providers that I was interested in seeing but after reading the discussion board and the back and forth on threads it completely turned me off.

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Yes, thank you very much for your constructive criticism brandon_biggins as well as thank you very much for trying to reignite the drama.

...is with his estimates. 90% of hobbyists could pick up a girl in a bar? I think that number is about 80% too high.

I agree !!!  

It's always great to be informed, but maybe check once a week or bi-weekly if it feels too negative for you. Or just get on social media like twitter so you can block the negative nancy's or the people who stress you out. Or just mute the non-informative people so they don't know you blocked them.

Seriously,.maybe 20% are decent.looking if we are lucky.  Of course, there are guys like you who are so amazing and irresistible.... Oh baby give it to me....puhlease.....

If it were that easy and the batting odds were 90% guys wouldn't be on here.

I wanna get laid not listen to her drama .. 90% really ??? Lmfao I bet not 1% of the guys out here have picked up a girl at a bar and fucked her .. At least the ones over 50..

Ah, the discussion boards... Yet another sexist "hobbyist" with a tight budget with nothing to say but ignorant and negative things. Not surprised tho🙄

I think that the turn off goes both ways. I am definitely turned off by older "gentleman" gossiping and bullying a woman like middle school boys on a playground. I have most definitely taken names and added them to my own personal do not see list. I also laughed at the 90% part!! LOL I will be laughing at that all weekend. I appreciate the cool people that I have met through this board and I was quite shocked at the back and forth that was going on. However I will say that the few men that were spearheading that little drama leave little to be desired in general. Everything that I have ever read from a couple of them have always had nasty little rude under tones. I mean who wants to entertain clients that may potentially say harmful and damaging things about your business which directly affects our livelihood. Its just rude and diabolical if you ask me.

The only thing rude and diabolical here is a post op not telling a hobbist that she was a he at one point..ouch !!!!!  

Please don't put all who spoke out about the provider who lied in the same category. True, some were piling on, but others, like myself, had seen the provider in question not knowing he(r) status. And when I wrote a review that did not give her the ratings (s)he expected (s)he pm'd me with threats and vile language. Then I found out the truth and was totally disgusted. So I spoke out.  I don't think that's bullying, it's seeking the truth.

Amen!!!

Wasn't this over weeks ago? Let it go and stop making jokes about TS people. The only thing it shows is that you are uneducated and have never left your home town. 🙄

Candice, I'm not sure who you are responding to, but i was not "making jokes" about TS people. I was simply pointing out that not everyone was bullying the provider. Instead, I was expressing my anger and frustration with the deceit. I would say the same thing about anyone who deceived me and then threatened me when they didn't like a review. Trust me, it wasn't funny receiving vile emails and threats from someone who had lied to me and others.

Wow.

I'm far more educated then you . You couldn't afford a cab in my hometown. So Before you cast aspersions on me know what you're talking about .  
But this has nothing to do with TG or TS it's about deception to a hobbyist . Good luck to you honey !  

Lol  stop it  for real

I never want them to leave ....