I had a scheduled apt ...prebooked for a while... for 2 hours in an upscale hotel..... Everything was going as planned... I was far exceeding his expectations.... He was in town for a wedding.... very hung over from the night befores festivities... Half way through.... after Greeek and other Languages... he stated " could we call it  a night" "I am tired" which is ok with me except when he reached for the plain white envelope we all know so well ... and removed one hours fee....  I now think I should have said something but its not my style....He was from out of state and I will just now be very hesitant to see anyone under the age of 28.... Is it me or  was that a little rude on his part??? I might also add he had multiple pops..

It was definitely very rude (and stupid) on his part.  He booked you for two hrs of your time...he should pay you for the time.  I would have.

I understand there is a desire on your part to be a GFE.  However, sometimes people want to take advantage of that.  It is better to delicately check out the amount in the envelope and place it in your belongings.

As long as you deliver the deed with enthusiasm, there should be no complaints at all.

I still can't believe how bad someone can sink to with regard to money.  What a lowlife.

Boy oh boy thats a first. I think thats borderline stealing. If we have an appointment and I'm hungover then to bad for me. An appointment is an appointment regardless of time. What did he think you could call some one and fill the spot ASAP. You made the correct choice to just let him go, you don't know what the hell your dealing with at that point. Sorry Megan you didn't deserve that.

It was very nice of you not to bring it up, but your time was at stake here.  

Going foward, 2 hour is 2 hours. You can make the 28 year rule, but sometimes we're idiots over thirty too....

I bet if he's at a restaurant and is having a fantastic meal that he can only half finish, he pays only half the check too. What a freak.

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Megan: The guy was a jerk, but I think you handled it the right way.
You seem like a very classy lady. I've never taken part in the hobby, but I like your reviews and you will be my first.

because your too much a lady to have kicked his @ss for a bush move like that.

It's one thing if he asked you, (not that helps in your situation) but you weren't given the opportunity.

If he wasn't "up for it", it's his loss...in more ways than one

I always take,count and put away the $ before we get started.And if he books and pays for 2 hours but is too tired to do the whole 2 hours then too bad.Once client books and pays for time there is no changeing it once he gets there.The way I see it is you could have booked someone else for that extra hour that he now does not want to take.And NO there is NO refunds on time not taken after client booked and payed.I forget.Was this a in or out call honey?Eather way,NO REFUNDS!!!

Megan,
I have been reading posts here for many months, but have never posted.  This guy is such an @ss I just had to toss you my support.  Unbelievable.  Just when you think you have heard it all...

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Look sweetness, unless he is a respected regular, the envelop is ALWAYS taken upfront.

I NEVER expect to pay at the end unless the provider and I have a relationship already.

You may lose the occasional tip, but you won't be in this situation in the future.

Besides, this jerk wasn't going to tip you anyway.

Finally, jerks come in all ages.

Warmly,
Loarthan

Megan,

If he made an appointment for that length of time and you scheduled YOUR time accordingly then - no matter what - he owes you the donation, in FULL, for that appointment.

I guess it's a lesson "learned" -- but a bad one at best. Yes, you definitely should have said something.

Ted

I know I should have .... I have always felt it rude... but I think I will rethink that phylosophy on that  from now on......

You've got that right Loarthan...jerks come in all races and sexes too.

It's like they used to say, "Anybody can grow up to be President." That may not be true.

What is definitely true?

Anybody can grow up to be an A**hole!

I always tell my friends, "We all make mistakes! There's nothing wrong with that. Until the day we die, we will continue to do so. The trick is to learn from our mistakes and not repeat them."

I'm sorry this happened, Megan. Thanks for sharing it though. This is a good lesson for all the ladies.

Happy Holidays everyone!

thirsty

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You have to remember your running a business here.If you were a store owner you'd wouldn't leave the money on the counter while serviceing the client,you'd count it and put it safely away.This is the same as any other business.I see so many times that girls just take or leave the gift envelope and then count it later,eather in the bathroom or after the client leaves.Then they find that they got jiped out of their money.That is so dumb.Please take the money and double count it always.Also a lot of the time when the bills are new they get stuck togather I find.So you have to count it always.And as you can see here on the board a lot of the guys are on your side in this matter.Not all men are creeps as you can see by the posts.A lot of us are on your side.

An a**hole who does something like this could have caused even more trouble if you said something.  I'm not necessarily talking about something as severe as violence, but something like giving you an unfair negative review, exposing your location on this board, calling LE, etc.  Your decision not to say anything might have been the wiser course.  The bottom line is that you were put in a very uncomfortable situation from which no good could come to you.

which is why I leave the gift in a conspicous place and 'pardon' myself to 'freshen up' allowing time for the lady to assure herself everythings in order. 'Accounting' in my presence is tacky and compromises the mood.

Most guys are Not Gentlemen like your self that know how to pardon them selves to freshen up.Also I had the problem from a "A" HOLE one time, when he went to freshen up and I counted the money and came up short and told him when he came out.He claimed it was all there when he gave it to me and I took some of it, and now wanted to hit him up for more.YES That DOES HAPPEN!That's why I have to be "Rude"and now count the money in front of clients.Not All men are Gentlemen.Ain't it a shame.

appropriate lyrics that just came to me!

never count your money when you're sitting at the table. there'll be plenty time for counting when the dealing's done.

gotta love kenny rogers!

A couple of years ago, I returned from freshening up, only to have the 'lady' confront and accuse me of shorting the gift. She rechecked in front of me and lo and behold the expected prize was there. That was our third...and last appointment.

Granted, not everyone plays on the up and up, but there are methods, in any given situation.

I'm sorry this happened to you Megan. Unfortunately for us it is hard to tell which guy's have no class and would pull this sh@t until they do it. We cannot base that on their age or their location. Don't refuse to see out of town gentlemen or under 28 "just" because of this jacka@@.......it's not fair to you or the gentlemen. You will be missing out on meeting alot of great guy's as well as them missing out on a Wonderful provider!

A good way to look at this is for the most part you have wonderful client's that respect you and your time and that is a gift. It is a rare occasion when an unclassy or ungentlemanly bozo show's up. You did the right thing my dear....hold your head up high you are a classy women for not causing a scene. He was the one with no class, bad behavior on anyone's part is not tolerated and will soon be outed and he will be unable to find a provider willing to see him!  

Chin up girl......your one of the good one's! ~Warm Hug's & Keep yourself Safe~ Chrissy

My only issues have been with younger men - unfortunately

(except with one over 50 VIP God from another land last spring and oh, another over 50 regular to the boards who has pulled the same on several ladies-in fact I had to edit this post after reading the board )  

I find most mature professional gents appreciate the service provided and don't play games the same as kids.  I have had young guys ask me to call ex-girlfriends, ask me to constantly do deals, or suddenly are "short", beg to come to my home, you name it.  Rarely have I had issues with any gents over 35, especially those related to compensation.  I just want to meet and have fun, not worry about these types of things.  Please make sure you note the situation in the database on "that other board."

Be picky about who you see, it's worth it!  

Sorry about what happened.  Hugs, K

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Re:Be picky about who you see, it's worth it!

Words to live by!

thirsty

New bills can and do get stuck together.And it can look like your getting shorted by a client.I had it happen to me many times.Thats why I count my gift in front of the client.I never want to have any mis understandings about $. I know to some it may look Rude but its to protect the client also.And also it's important how an escort handle's her self if that happens.You do not ever get mad at the client.You both count the money up front again.At times I've even had to give clients back money that they didn't know was stuck together!YES! It works both ways!

and the over reaction made it the last time.