are you OK???  although we had never met, you seemed sweet and your reference thought you were too and it seemed very uncharacteristic of you... we're both worried to a degree...I understand that things come up , notice is great and a call..but even no call or notice the day after?? I have to admit..this was my first "no show" EVER in the biz..but you just didn't seem the type...and not fair to the gents I may have turned away to spend time with you, hun( or myself in that matter)  Give me a simple heads up that you're OK at this point.

Sounds to me like you really dont give a shit about him or else you wouldn't have posted this dribble here. Feel better now that you got that off your chest? Just admit that you're pissed that you missed out on making some cash. Jeeeez.....

Even if she WAS pissed off because of the no show she has way too much "Class" to bad mouth him or anyone else  here on the boards...unlike you sir.

Maybe I'm just soft in the head, but I like to give people the benefit of the doubt.  And I really hate it when people second-guess my motives and assert that they know why I did something.  

Perhaps Melinda is honestly concerned, but has no other way to contact him?  Perhaps she is one of those ladies who really doesn't keep contact information once the appointment is scheduled.  Or maybe not...  But it's a possibility...

Have fun, MG

if I was vengeful and pissed and not a lady,  I would have placed reference to his identity (which I feel would have been unprofessional and wrong)  and yes, this IS the only way to connect with him at this point...I always like to give those the benefit of the doubt and I really DO believe (from his repeat history with a friend and his responsiveness and agreeablility and our communication prior to the appt) that something had happened..it's still boggling my mind. Hopefully he will read this, put our minds at ease and realize I'm pretty easy-going and feel comfortable re-approaching....

you obviously don't know me or my process in choosing my gentleman company, be nice...many of the gents I have met here are...
  I pride in that I don't see my company I keep as simply $$$ and don't see Every one that emails me...but choose "new friends" that i may have some element of chemistry and fun with...that way, both parties profit...not every girl out there gets pissed cause we "miss out on making some cash".  

-- Modified on 7/24/2004 5:39:16 PM

If Melinda were acting solely as a mercenary, profit-maximizing business wench, surely she would have pasted a link to her web site to generate more revenue traffic...  

Have fun, MG