Thank you for the reinforcing messages  guys. Too often people overlook what should be most important. They look out for #1 and forget that part of living a good full life is to be honest, compassionate and truthful. They forget about how important it is to nurture #2, #3 and so forth.

I have grown tired of New Years resolutions to me they quite often are unattainable things we give 0-2% effort to accomplish. (You know the resolution where we all say we are going to loose a measely 10 pounds and it never happens or maybe yours resolution is to quit smoking.)
Forget the resolutions I say and get back to basics....make wishes, believe in fate, make things happen for yourselves share, care. laugh, love, live every moment like it were your last. It may be my last who knows? It may be yours. If this is too mushy for you men to read then you are definately the ones the furthest lost.

Ask yourselves "How can I live everyday without leaving any unfinished business." I do not mean mergers, business deals, or elite social engagments. Nor parties, or vacations, cardio water aerobics, errands, or walking your dog...I mean getting to know yourself, your friends, your spouse, your kids, your parents, making your intentions known instead of always leaving people hanging. Giving people credit where credit is due.

It all amounts to the effort you are willing to put forth. Yes this holiday season I am expressing my deepest wishes that people care for one another, My holiday wish is for us all to get along and really look out for one another. We are a community, but not just this community.....I hope that in our real lives we can all get along and really find the good in one another and quit the back biting and negative b.s I should not have waited until Christmas to say this...I should have held tight to my convictions and expressed how important this is sooner. I guess the holidays have a way of bringing out what is really on a persons mind. Call me a dreamer call me crazy, but I think everyone should consider calling at least one person today, tomorrow and telling them they care. Mending fences..lending a helping hand.

Now with that said everybody please have a SAFE, healthy, happy and prosperous New Year. Your Well Wishing Dreamer, Stacey Hott xoxoxo to ALL