You followed your instincts, somewhat sketchy area that you are unfamiliar with, it was at night and she was not helping. The fact she could not just come dawnstairs to guide you in is a problem. Had you knocked on doors and it was the wrong house, that could have been a whole other problem.
Explain to her why you left and if she doesn't get it, then suck is life. You have yours! Pleanty of other providers willing to work with you to keep you safe.
Move on.
Posted By: bri_smith
Hey guys and gals,
I'm not new to the game anymore and I like to think I'm extremely courteous and respectful of the providers time as well as my own. This is where I ran into an issue and I'm really feeling bad on my end but I'm also not entirely sure I should be. What it boils down to is this, there is someone (I'll keep names withheld) whom I recently saw some new reviews and pictures etc..and determined I'd like to see her.
We exchanged e-mails and seemed to hit it off, which let to texts, and finally, an appointment. Now, we did speak on the phone as well. Anyways, day of, she texted asking if we were still on, and I informed her we were I just needed to shower and I'd be on my way. She texted me the exit off of the highway and said to text/call when there. No problem.
I texted and she replied with her address. Now keep in mind this is at about 8P.M. and I'm in an unfamiliar, and to be honest kind of sketchy (in my opinion) neighborhood. I parked across the street from what I thought was the home and called asking if she could see my lights.
"I dont know, I'm on the third floor, just go in the side"
I said I'm just not sure which house you're specifically referring to because there are no street lights. Can you tell me what to look for.
"I'm not sure"
Well...there's a bunch of people outside and I'm not about to go wandering around by myself trying to find your place. By people I mean three hooded black men just standing around and two other walked past my car.
She proceeded to act like I was an idiot, couldn't fathom how I couldn't find where she was located, kept asking me if I was on her street but then was very vague in her descriptions of which house and such. I had a terrible feeling about it and ended up driving away.
She has reputable reviews, and was so out of character from our previous conversations.
Finally, I drove almost 50 minutes to see said provider and received 3 calls and texts and then an e-mail saying she was shocked at being stood up etc...
Am I wrong in leaving here? How do you not know enough about your own place to guide me in? I just want to make sure I'm not the only one.
Has anyone else ever had anything like this?
