when you are visiting your Lady friend of choice in general for incall how do you prefer she dress?

Lingirie heels stockings
A dress heels theigh highs followed by nice panties and bra, more to take off leaving your imagination to run wild.
or just panties and a bra.
or just a towel or robe to be dropped by the door as you arrive.
Heels flats or barefoot...
How do you feel about boots?

Soft music and candlelight...does that do it for you or doesnt it matter?
How often when making arrangements do you request a certain dress attire?
Is your fantasy the girl or the girl dressed just so...

How often when you make an appt to see a gal do you want her to have the latest outfit with her from the newest pictures you have fantasized over?

How often do you bring along a nice bottle to share with your lover?

lets us know what WOWS you the most

I know its different with everyone but just curious what hits your fancy.

answer this what is your fancy.
How do you dress for incall...
Heels theigh highs dress
naked...

candlelit. music fill us in.

xox
Nic

fishnets, satin, cashmere, and silk are all good.

Even a robe is fine.

Soft lighting and music is great too, but not too dark - I want to see you after all.

Heels don't do it for me.

Wine is good if I don't have to drive off too soon.  Some gals have fruits, cheese and chocolate to munch on.  I love that.

A bottle of spring water for dehydrating afterwards is a very nice touch too.

Hi Nicole,
I love it when a woman dresses nicely. Matching panties and bra under a dress and thigh highs and heels are a definite turn on
Of course you look awesome in anything

see YOU in the blue jeans with the blue plaid shirt!
Other than that it's all good so I guess I'm more into what is in the outfit. I like the robe or towel or stark naked too. I don't like "wait for me to change into something special for you" as I feel like they are trying to kill some time.
I have never brought a bottle of wine with me as I'm not into wine. I would however bring one if asked to.
(I don't see the proper smiley face to put on my reply, I need one licking his chops)
E

yucky  weather seems like a good day for flannel.

My mood (frisky,sensual, slutty, femdom, semi-cozy) and of course what I may have pre-arranged with my visitor. If has no request, but I know he's a latex lover then I'm prone to adorn myself in latex. My gents who enjoy me au natural receive me sans clothing and those who enjoy unwrapping me like a gift get a lovely surprise, a lovely outfit, stockings and lingerie suited to them.
I don't serve wine and prefer guests not bring it however, I often have an array of teas, vitamin water, and bottled water. When in season I always have fresh fruit to nibble on.
I like to keep my man candy satiated in more ways than one and prefer a moderate temperature room. As far as lighting I can go either way, dim and sensual to streaming ambient sunlight.
I have a huge collection of music available on pandora set and ready for just about any taste except hard core rap or country.

Cheers,
Grace

The more she has on the better. I like to take my time during foreplay to slowly undress her. I like
the anticipation at every step and the thrill of seeing her scantily clad body being slowly unwrapped.

My ideal scenario:

1. She wears a sexy form fitting dress; or sexy blouse and skirt.
2. Sheer sexy stockings & garters (or thigh highs) with the lacy tops; maybe with seems in the back.
3. Sexy open toed (straps only) high heels
4. Underneath, matching sexy panty and bra

Let me know when you are ready and I will drive up to Boston to see you!

p.s. Its also a lot of fun to do it without undressing all the way!

I like for a lady to have on a sexy dress, hair done and her make-up on point. Then I like to see her in sexy lingerie and thigh high stockings (not the fishnet kind) and stiletto high heels.  I like for her to mix it up.  I don't want to see her in the same outfit all the time.  If she does happen to make chages in her gallery then make the offer to wear something from the shoot.  It would be really nice if the provider would ask us what we would like to see her in.  Having her set the mood is always appreciated as well.  Candles, some nice Jazz in the background with some insence burning or something like that is always nice.  To me it just seems that some providers just don't care.  Sometimes, when we request her to wear something you do get the attitude in your ear.  Thats for another day!!  LOL

I would like to bring a nice bottle of wine, but I am always told that they do not drink.  Why is that??  Well thats what I like, I hope this will be of some help to some of the providers outthere!  

Mj

Total newbie here. Under the weeds here until I get a feel for what goes on. Thank God I finally
Figured out what TS meant before a providers name. That would have been awkward. Put me down for
prefering jeans and a flannel shirt while barefoot. My weakness is a sexy bra, panty set under
such an outfit. Champagne, music and candles help make for a great visit. The sexiest element of
any liason would be, in my opinion, chemistry with the provider.
If a lady wanted to dress up, miniskirt, bare legs and sling backs. Just my 2 cents.

When I am visiting a Lady friend at her incall I prefer she dress for the time of day and whether or not we are headed out.

Lingerie, heels, and stockings are always appreciated

A dress, heels, thigh highs, covering nice panties and bra are all fun to peel and often provide additional joy to the peeling and of course make the woman even more appealing.

Not so interested in just panties and a bra, but might be if I were doing a half hour drive by.

Just a towel or robe to be dropped by the door as I arrive would be fine, if requested, but might feel like taking a number at the bakery, if I had not requested.

Heels flats or barefoot all can be sexy, as can boots.

Soft music and candlelight are delightful.

I often bring along a nice bottle to share with your lover in the evening and ask their wishes for daytime beverages as well.

Fancy outfits don't do anything for me?  I like jeans and a T-shirt just fine. Gives me more of a "real" feeling. Someone I may have just gotten back from a movie and mini golfing with. We are at her place about to get lucky.

Besides, most of the time the outfit doesn't stay on too long anyway !

And that's why we love you Grace!

For clothing at the door I prefer something tight fitting that displays her figure.  High heels are good unless she is so tall I cannot reach (kiss) her lips.  Boots are okay, just take them off before doing doggie.  A little music is good so the neighbors won't hear whats going on.  Full light to see the beauty in all her glory.  Low light for the  girls that don't look so great.  I never consume alcohol during or before escorting.  Will bring a bottle for the girl if she has told me previously that there is a specific drink she likes.  What wows me the most: girl laying on her back on the bed or couch with her head drooped over the edge...gives a big smile and says “come fuck my face.”

I am getting hard just typing this.

Music on, TV off and Plz no soap operas, and a little something on for undressing purposes only!

I'll go with #2 Dress, stockings, heels, panties and bra, though I do prefer skirts over dresses, either one would work. Can sometime be tough to find provides who will do this right.

I think I'm most consistently a #2: tight fitting dress with a nice matching underwear set. Heels always make a girl's legs look great and maybe I won't seem so tall (usually the first words out of the girl's mouth) if she has a couple of inches under her feet.

That said, if a girl's caught my eye because of her photos (usually the case), it's always a thrill to be see one of those photos come-to-life. One of my most recent dates was wearing the bra and panty set from her pictures and it was an enormous turn on.

I think I've only requested an outfit once (based on the provider's pictures). She'd gotten rid of the set a long time ago, but she got my drift and picked something that was a pretty close comparison.

In the end, I tend to trust the girl's judgement.

...as far as the clothiing is concerned it depends on the girls look.  I prefer that they accentuate whatever their stronger assets are.  I do prefer that they are NOT in a towel. It makes me feel like they are maybe rushing from appointment to appointment.  Usually I don't want them in strret clothes but then again if the situation dictates it...one girl had to meet me in the lobby so it was fitting and she still looked very sexy and cute.

I rarely make requests because the few times I have they have been ignored.

As far as the room is concerned I prefer it to be dim but not dark. Candles are a nice touch.  I prefer softer music, or r&b. Visited a younger girl yesterday and she had hip hop playing and it was just ditracting.  Maybe ask me what I like or are in the mood for.

I guess the best atmospheres are with the ladies that realize that we (men) are usually out for more than just a "quick bang" and have taken a little time and consideration to prepare so it feels a little less like some generic hotel room and set a mood.
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It depends on time of day, city and the lady as I am open to anything. I love to meet a lady who is wearing a robe with beautiful lingerie underneath and of course barefoot.  I also love a beautiful dress, high heels but in this situation she is wearing no under garments. Prefer the dimly lit room with candles  that do not have too much of a perfume smell.  I am open to bringing anything the lady would like and love when there is water, fruits etc available. As for the music, I prefer jazz with low volume.

My choice is backround music playing with light turned down just a bit, I want to be able to see. Although I don't always ask I really like heals, nylons and a short robe or shirt and othing else. Sexy underwear is pretty but I'd prefer you leave it in drawer if I'm visiting. A long DFK within 2 seconds of closing the door makes for the perfect start.

BYW - I have always hoped that someone would surprise me by answering door completely naked but it's never happened. I don't ask because it wouldn't be the same but I'm really hoping someone does it.

When I first started girl-watching (when I was supposed to being doing school work) rib knits, especially with cozy turtlenecks, and even better, with stripes, were sure to draw my eye. A pantsuit with a tight underbust midriff was a rare treat.

Leotards are a favorite, especially in shiny slippery fabrics. Denim and jersey feel good around the girl I'm making out with. Belts and cinches and corsets are a big turn-on, especially in....

Leather, both real and pleather, is an irrestible distraction. As I recently told someone here, my most memorable leather encounter was with a cute Asian visiting from SF who wore a jacket of soft semi-gloss leather that fitted her upper body as skin-tight as a longline bra and continued down her hips -- its every soft creak got me a little harder. Think spy/adventure movie.

I think it all depends on the mood and the specific encounter I had one encounter where I requested a specific outfit anyway when I arrived at the scheduled time and she wasnt ready but it was a cold and rainy day and she didnt want me to wait outside so she let me in and I was waiting while she got ready anyway she came out of the bathroom after getting out of the shower with just a towel anyway she just looked so good with the towel on we started making out and the outfit requested wasnt even an issue.