you wrote your review. you posted on the message board to make sure everybody found your review. are you going to keep posting every few days? how bad is this girl, anyway? did she stab you? rob you? does the community need to be protected from her?
the only responses to your post down below were in defense of lauren and/or marcella; MG, one of the classiest guys around, was the only one who stood up for you at all, and even then he left us with a gentle suggestion to give the girl a chance.
marcella is a highly regarded lady around here. personally, i didn't sense any intimidation tactic in her response to your message, seemed like she was just trying to defend her girl. and obviously she did not respond to your "critical and honest review" but to the additional attack in your post on the message board.
I'm the person who posted the recent review of Lauren to which Marcelle responded in another thread. I thought the review was critical but respectful. As you can see from the statistical summary I have reviewed nearly 50 escorts during my time on TER, and I always try to be fair but helpful to my fellow hobbyists.
I don't at all mind Marcella responding to my review, but what puzzles or even concerns me is that Marcella claims that she knows my identity, even though I never once used my TER reviewing name when making the booking. Nor did I ever use it in speaking with Lauren. Yet she says in her reply that Lauren and I "didn't hit it off," an observation that is entirely false, and her comment about the client staying an "extra 45 minutes" certainly doesn't apply to my meeting with Lauren.
I'm a great advocate of free speech, and I don't in the least object to Marcella's reply. But I think her confidence that she knows which client I am is misplaced. I also think that the suggestion that she can connect a reviewer with a client's real identity can easily be used to intimidate those who write critical but honest reviews.
you wrote your review. you posted on the message board to make sure everybody found your review. are you going to keep posting every few days? how bad is this girl, anyway? did she stab you? rob you? does the community need to be protected from her?
the only responses to your post down below were in defense of lauren and/or marcella; MG, one of the classiest guys around, was the only one who stood up for you at all, and even then he left us with a gentle suggestion to give the girl a chance.
marcella is a highly regarded lady around here. personally, i didn't sense any intimidation tactic in her response to your message, seemed like she was just trying to defend her girl. and obviously she did not respond to your "critical and honest review" but to the additional attack in your post on the message board.
I would like to say first of all that Muncher is absolutely correct! In a very well written post, he has made me realize the pitfalls and risks that a provider can make by assuming she knows her reviewer.
Muncher is also 100% right when he says, “I also think that the suggestion that she can connect a reviewer with a client's real identity can easily be used to intimidate those who write critical but honest reviews.” That is why this practice (the practice of a provider posting that she knows her reviewer) should be taken very seriously.
I never said that Munchers review of Lauren was a bad or fake review, but I did imply it. And Muncher, for that, I am terribly sorry. You obviously have a good reputation, and by looking at your other reviews, you write honest and fair reviews. I wish everyone on TER had your style. Again, I apologize. For a provider to assume she knows her reviewer, and publicly state that on a post, is wrong and should not be practiced. It hurts everybody! It makes the provider look weak, and in some cases foolish. It makes the reviewer look like a liar, or like he has some other agenda.
This is why I am always quiet on these boards. Clarence37, I don’t believe I know you, but thank you for coming to my rescue, and for the kind words. I like to think that one of the reasons I am respected is because I have always kept away from saying too much on these boards. Mistakes are too often made by misinterpretations and assumptions. I have seen many girls bury themselves by saying the wrong things. These boards can also be very political…and they are very unforgiving.
Muncher, I hope you accept my public apology. Sincerely, Marcella
Marcella, that was one of the classiest responses I have ever seen on this or any other board, and you are to be highly complimented on your honesty and responsiveness. Your apology is happily accepted; in fact, your classy style now makes me interested in meeting you 'in the flesh.' You have always had an excellent reputation, and this reply only shows how well-deserved that reputation is!
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