well you may limit yourself just a bit, however, I am not a BBW although just a few years over 35.  Actually, I will be in Hyannis next Wednesday, April 16, by request and if you have not had any luck finding your dream girl by then and can find it in your heart to consider 40 well, I will be there.  Or if not, hey..I wish I knew of someone up in your area.  xoxo Lilly