1. What do you mean "talk to"? I mainly send messages to ladies when I want to schedule appointments. So if I gotta join your Onlyfans to smalltalk, sure. If I gotta join to schedule appointments, fuck no.
2. Honestly, I live in the suburbs of a big city. I primarily travel to big cities. Most likely, there will either be a bevy of touring ladies around or locals to choose from. No reason to do a fly me to you.
I did a "drive me to you" once. She was coming from Boston to New Haven. I will never do it again. She was 90 minutes late and since I had already put down a deposit, I was stuck. Otherwise I would've canceled.
3. Sounds sketchy but I have seen 2 ladies that have gone by multiple names and I had good appointments with them. Do your research, I guess.
4. It's your business. You can ask for whatever you want. That being said, I will not reach out for an appointment. I've been doing this for a little under 9 years. I've gotten by with name, phone numbers and references. If I was a newbie, possibly. But I am not.
5. Ask me in a month. I will be coming up here then.