Even in doggy, if a mirror can be placed so you can see her face and vice versa, all the better.

It doesn't have to be constant, but just every ten to fifteen seconds to peer into her orbs is a treat.

A wonderful form of foreplay in fact is eyeball gazing.  Try that some time while snuggling.

BBBJ?  It seems that many guys make a point of observing in their reviews that the lady made steady eye contact while performing a BJ.  In fact, some guys consider it a sine qua non of a GFE.  
   
 I'm not sure I understand this.  Personally, I have enough trouble keeping my eyes from rolling to the back of my head during a BJ to pay enough attention to where my lady friend's eyes are looking.  I start wondering:  Does she expect me to look down so I can see that she's looking up?  Do I have a wattle under my chin, and is she staring at it?  Is she looking up because she thinks I expect her to?  Maybe that's why I seldom CIM.  
   
 It can't be very attractive to either participant if the girl looks like she's playing the oboe while looking up at the ceiling, or like a female Kenny G (ugh, now try getting THAT image out of your head!), or if the guy looks like he's trying to watch his toes curl through his nostrils.    
   
 Eye contact during coitus?  Now that's more like it.  Much more intimate.  It's one reason DS is not my favorite, even though most women rate it #1.  Not that there's anything wrong with that!  
   
 OK guys, and ladies too, discuss amongst yourselves

Asian cowgirl so I can see you going in and out of me, you can see my expression in my eyes, I can see yours, and perhaps suck on my finger too…..whoooohooo!

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Anna, you're a tease!  I'll have to see you again sometime to find out.

Tease maybe….for real yes!! xoxo

I had to put you on my short list after visualizing you in asian cowgirl !

I've been told I have very intense eyes. I like a good visual and like to connect with my eyes both in Photos and with a client im really feeling. It is a intense way of letting your guy  know your into him ! Its the strongest form of body lanuage.

.... I like to see his face while I perform but I'm not staring the whole time that would be pretty creepy.

but havent had any complaints thus far.
had a missed connection or two but then again like most women, i dont respond well to mental or physical abuse. !
When treated right I have good time and others do. The very very minute occasions I encountered mental abuse with appts, all bets are off. they arent gonna enjoy themselves!
and a bad review will follow. I refuse to accept males who are physically or mentally abusive. hence why i have maybe 3 bad reviews in three years.  

 
and i am proud of the bad reviews. it shows i wont put up with b.s. from guys who hobby solely to abuse women....
and yes they are out there. luckily through my travels i have met very few that have these characteristics. i make sure to portray an outspoken strong powerful image of myself which for most part is a deterent for the men whom prey on women . one my bad reviews he was rough and inflicted pain, intentional during appt, as did  my most recent reviewer. he actual kicked me in private area and pretendedx it was accidental!. during the massage.  
one the bad reviewers reviewed a lady in cali after me. he gave her a excellent review,,,,,, going on and on about her lack of self validation! and how she was cowering in his mighty presence basically!
he went on and on about how she thought she was ugly and he then said what a great time he had....
 sick. sick.  puppy...
 i am gl;adf i publicly ripped him a new asshole. but apparrently it didnt set in,... judging by his rave review of what apears to be a beaten down escort he reviewed in cali, he actually loved the fact she had zero self esteem and went on and on about it.  
i think thats sick.
 if a lady is ashamed and down trodeen on her body and face, how traumatic it must be for the poor baby to do an appt.
 if i were a guy and encountered a woman in that mind state, i would tell her to keep the dam donation and i wouldnt be able to do the session, let alone sing her praises for being broken, .in a review, then stomping on some one with balls like myself, ha!
i would say since my reviews on this site began in 2011, or farther back since i began servicing regulars that are well known on ter, well that was over ten years ago. and i still am tight with them,  
so lets just say in my 7 years of servicing boston and traveling hobbyist, and three years in getting or subjecting myself to being judges reviewed scored, ..
i honestly can say my only mentally abusive encounters were three, and all three gave nasty reviews with misinformation, and by a long shot, what i endured in the presence of these arrogant bastards, wow, you couldnt pay me enough to ever sit back n smile , not for three hun,  not for 750, not for a million.
unfortunelty like some men believe we will endure any type of idiotic behavior since they have money in an envelope for us,
when treated well by a gentlemen, i give great service, to any guys that are in the hobby for the sole purpose to mentally abuse and physically abuse women, well, yes those r the ones thatl have a bad review to post..
i d rather live on my feet than die on my knees!

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There's something about a guy looking down at me during a bbbj that makes me HOTTER, makes me drool more, and become more excited. But add ANOTHER cock into the mix - 2 cocks in my mouth at once, and 4get the Cocoa Puffs -  I'm going KooKoo For Cock! Maybe I'm just a nympho...

Just early in the event.  It contributes to the arousal. Nowhere in the book of etiquette does it say you can't close your own eyes in preparation for the climactic moment.