OK, Im not sure if this is crazy but I was looking at some of the rates for the better reviewed girls and they charge 4 figures for 4 hour dinner dates. Do you think its possible to have some type of long term agreement with one of the better reviewed girls where you pay a flat monthly rate for a certain level of time? I was thinking like 3 to 5K for 1 night per week and maybe 1 weekend per month and possibly 3-4 7 day vacations per year? Im not sure if this would be considered a SB thing or not. Does this level of service exist. It would take trust on both parts for the girl to get paid and for me they would have access to my personal life Family, friends, homes, business associates? Any thoughts?

The terms you are offering are pretty generous to yourself, but hey, if some gal likes the idea of steady income and takes a shine to you anyways, why don't you suggest it?

Nothing is out of the question but you probably need to go on a few four dates to see if you click and the a mutually beneficial agreement can be made. Your probably putting the cart before the horse

"I'd have one aviso:  Familiarity breeds contempt."

Papidog,

I don't think that the amount of time you are requesting would allow for enough familiarity to create a dullness which is what actually occurs. The contempt comes after you realize your stuck. The problem is your paying for time and if she becomes dependent on it you'll feel like a heel if you desire to cut it down or off and if she requires more money due to a change in her position in life or in the industry in general then you may become resentful. Ends of these arrangements never probably end smoothly, just like real life it's awkward and sometimes sad. I'd be reluctant to enter into anything more than becoming a regular with a lady you click with then just let it evolve rather than try to create an agreement. Things change rapidly for us and providers in their/our real life . I remember a gal I used to see ten years ago when I first started hobbying she was a great gal and real fun but one day she told me her man decided to commit to her despite him knowing her occupation and there were " new rules" gfe was no longer available. I politely left my donation and received below average session and spent a lot of time listening to how she planned to get married etc. obviously I never went back and she soon retired. It's tough to get too close to each other as this is a rendezvous based on secrecy and discretion. You are setting yourself up for headaches at best and heartache at worst. ( unless you are Richard Gere and you find your Julia Roberts)  
That's my $.02 and that's all my opinion is probably worth

Maybe your both crazy which would make you compatible?  Just a theory with no facts to back it up

Not sure any lady is going for that! lol
I know...typo, auto correct. It's still funny based on the board we're on!

There are some of us providers that would prefer arrangements only. It's the lack of friendship in at least half of the encounters that make me take a lot of time off. Don't get me wrong regulars are right there along with arrangements. It's amazing when you realize you have been seeing someone for years. I think if anyone is gong to understand what an arrangement is on or off- a provider gets it and the likelihood of drama and nonsense if it doesn't work out would be less. Although feeling are feelings and no one knows who they will become attached to. I have often thought it would be great if TER offered a board for those interested in dating/arrangements. I would rather date someone that has hobbied- I'm not good at hiding or lying and it's a bad start with secrets in my opinion. Put it all out there and take me as I am, lol.

look at what she charges and figure what she COULDVE made if she worked those nights instead of takin the smaller donation as af lat rate and spending time with you.
    I know i get offers and then do the math , I could stay home and do 3 massages at 160 for 45 min  
lets say each gives 40 bucks tip. so say 200 times 3 in for 2 hours and 15 min of my time,  
 sp for 3 , 45 min massages with tips I d be making 600 in just 2 hours and 15 minutes.
      Just do the math and take into consideration if its a fantasy for you or your truly beginning to BELIEVE she loves fucking you, Or is she trying to pay back student loans put a down poayment down on house and GET THE FUCK out the game. You gotta consider most these ladies arent tryin to make this 5 year prostitution spree, Most wanna make the most in least amount time and hacve personal lives kids boyfriends. The trouble is when your too nice and then guys like this begin to to actually believe the ladies wanna cut thier paycheck into one eighteenth of the normal income for a low ball income , Most are just tryin to get out a hole some kind or pay for school, For me I give discounts if I am feeling well and not worried about losing my apt. But you dont wanna start tryin to date and do sugar arrangements that are less than what yiu make escorting, You wann do a arrangement when they are takin care ya better then the appts ,  
 i dnt think a lady will want to do set rate and make less, If you offered more than the others and bigger perks and tips shed probly forfeit her other massages or dates for yam, I doubt many would wanna cut thier paycheck into a fourth to hang with the same client for less and for longer periods.  
    I know i offer dinner date for 100 with any appt. Or if they get appts at grand or more fw times a year i wont even mention the dinner date. fees. I am just hapy to have them,
    i know alot times i have nice regukars and it gets tough when your sacrificing your own goals to try and make every one happy and they turn around and take it personally. I rre raised my escorting rate again but have had it this same price and higher in past, I did 2 hour min at 750 onjce, and during the vegas trip and several months after too.  
                      The worst about this job is when guys try and make you feel bad and give you hard time if they cant afford or simply dont feel your worthb that is more like it! which is basically what they are saying, .......
                   I always do the math in my head well at lowest end of my income if i make 600n in 2 hours 15 min, and thats the lowest paying menu option 2 hours 15 min massages not full service. If i did fulls ervice forn 3 hours thats 1,500. i couldnt do three fullservice in row though, unfortunetly, ... I d be broken in two, If i got easy appts maybe but i attract the freaky deaky ones that are on viagra or some shit, apparently, ..................

i realize i wont be able to keep this apartment or the same lifestyle if i start doing that , so i decide against it pretty darn fast, I recently posted thinking i d try to arrange that kinda thing then i realized what a pay cut it would be, My rent is 1750, Then cable geesh one spray tan is 39 and then cab hom 15. that right there 55 a week, regukar tans 70 a month for unlimited. Nice lotion 5 min, a visit, Its nuts how expensive it all is, Dam and the photo shoots. too, wowza, Those escorts photographers are makn bank, It looks harder than escorting too, I cant imagine trying to hold your hands up and pressing a button for like hours and hours, I knew this metal mag photographer Pia. She ended up mentoring other photographers and hurt her arm, had brace on it too, Must kill! I am doin shoot thur, and the photographers are doin me 3-5, and have another shoot for 2 hours before me, They must all get carpal tunnel after doin that for years, ...