For me too it is her overall attitude. How pleasant she is; how relaxed and unrushed she makes me feel. Next, for sure skills; after all I am expecting (and paying for) a certain level of performance based on her profile and reviews. Finally, looks does help; if she turns out to be above average so much the better. But, since I'm very average I don't expect much better anyway. LOL!
I feel pretty much the same way. One of my ATF's that is retired wasn't the hottest I've met but she was the nicest person and it does make a difference. Met hot women with that mentality and it ruins the mood. I too am not the hottest guy she will see either so it also makes me more at ease.
Second is the skill with looks close 3rd. Obviously I choose a lady based on her looks so that is kind of set to a given standard so long as the pics are real.
being a bit older 1/2 the date is usually spent chatting anyway so if we hit it off in this way then it makes it that much more real.
Of course its always a pleasant surprise when the client is super hot and sexy with looks that I like. But I've been with more than a few guys I wouldn't traditionally find attractive who just rocked it so looks matter less to me than how a client comes at me when I open the door.
What makes some clients' dates better than others with me is just an animal sexual attitude.
Some providers are constant tigers- they're going to make it happen with everyone. I'm not that chick. I regret that I am not as intuitive as other girls and don't have that very special skill that I think most ultra top-rated providers have.
My energy plays off of the client's. If he's a little subdued I may be. If he's asking me a bunch of technical questions like "what do you like" "what can I do to make you happy" "what should we do next"- that's just not going to inspire the performance that other clients who just come in like animals are going to get.
Chemistry is everything so I say that for me a super fun, passionate, carnal attitude is what matters for me most and gets the most memorable experiences out of me not read about in reviews lol.
........with the being said attitude is most important .... his skills would be a bonus and good would be nice but again looks matter none. One of my best dates EVER looks almost exactly like Nicholas Turturro (from the tv show Blue Bloods) so not exactly a hunk in the least bit but....sweeter than a bag of sugar, interesting, funny, we had a lot of common interests, smart, good cook and didn't hurt he loved to DATY like his life depended on it.
meet someone on the dating sights with this attitude lol !! I'm not a troll by any means but still feel self conscious when with a stunning woman. Maybe I shouldn't worry so much about it?
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