Although at times the number of provider ads on the regional boards can feel a little overwhelming, it does serve a useful function for hobbyist and providers alike.  It’s good marketing for the woman and good information for the men.  

For the most part the provider ads are pretty simple and straight forward, some are very well written, creative even humorous giving a clear picture of the lady and her services.  Some are tacky and lack imagination but almost always they’re written to extol the virtues and the services of the woman posting.  The vast majorities of the ads are positive and speak only about their services and the availability of the Lady posting.

But I’ve been noticing another trend over the past several months.  Maybe it’s the economy maybe it’s something else.   But some of the “older” ladies, by no means all but a few, have taken to writing ads that aren’t positive at all.  These ads belittle and demean the marketing ads and business practices of the younger, and I would guess more successful woman posting here.

I think it’s terribly sad when one has to pick on and denigrate the practices of other woman, only so they can promote themselves.   This isn’t positive or well received.  

We’re all here because we enjoy P4P as means to satisfy our physical and sometimes emotional needs.  We are all adults and should do better at treating each other as adults, with respect and decorum.  

There is no need here to imply or state a negative value judgment against other woman’s marketing or ingenuity in an ad.   Everyone should sell them self on their own merits and leave the merits of other providers out of it.  Degrading others, even through implication, does not do any body any good.  There is plenty here for everyone, this isn’t musical chairs chasing the last client.  

If I guy wants a 20 y/o with a body of marble statue, I’m sure he can find that here. If a guy is looking for a White, a Black, a Hispanic or a Canadian I’m sure he can find it here.  If a guy wants 40 something MILF with the body of 28 year old, I know he can find it here because I have!  If a guy wants to find 50 or 60 year old woman still trying to run with the Philly’s I bet he can find one here too.  

Shit, I bet I guy could find a one legged Ho with a speech impediment and carpel tunnel syndrome here too.  
 
SO if these ladies don’t have enough game left to attract clients because of what they have to offer, rather than maligning what others are offering, then these ladies should think about another line of work.