Recently, I spent an evening with a woman, whose advertisement was a complete fabrication. We spent six hours on our date; and, then, she offered to spend the night, "no extra charge." Overcoming my initial surprise that she was not who she represented herself to be, I had a perfectly wonderful time. She was certainly an "8 level" companion.
This was not the first time such an experience in Boston; and in my prior experience in Tampa, where I formerly chose based Eros advertisements and TER reviews, the deceptions might have been the rule, not the exception.
Some deceptions bother me more than others. "Age" I understand to be strictly a marketing choice, not a reflection of realty. Among my favorites was a Boston woman, who advertised "26," while we were celebrating her 40th. Four or five years have passed; and she modified her ad to "35," making a gesture towards expectations. But, as a naturally beautiful woman, her actual age matters only to her and her hairdresser, certainly not someone looking for a good time.
Size, weight & height, deceptions bother me more, because I often select my dates, because they describe themselves as "petite." Woman gain weight -- don't we all, as we age -- but very few of us grow, as we age. I can and have had a wonderful time with women who are 20 lbs heavier than their advertised weight; but if I'm trying to decide among several perspective candidates, I would choose the smaller and lighter, if the ads were accurate.
Images, of course, are well known not to entirely accurate. Professional photographers, cameras, and Photoshop can present a very idealized, unrealizable image. A reasonable facsimile is the best that one can hope for, I imagine; but isn't it nice when the real woman exceeds your expectations. I've had that experience, and it certainly adds excitement to the encounter.
Money, of course, is the root of all evil; and the most difficult deception with with to come to terms, because no one, not men nor women, likes to confront the truth. Nearly every woman writes "...prices are non-negotiable;" and most women offer one or many discounts. It reminds me of all those biblical injunctions, don't do this or that, because sure as shooting the practices were widespread. Yet, on the other hand, men don't like confronting this fact of life either, because each and everyone of them thinks that the price they pay, whether it is discounted or not, is right, what the market dictates. I am fairly certain, after twelve years and a hundred women, that there is no correlation between price and worth. Some higher priced women are worth every penny paid, and some are not. Some lower priced women are worth their weight in gold, and some are overpriced, even at a discount. The most that I can say, from my experience, is that paying more you are more likely to find a better educated, more savvy, more experienced companion, but not necessarily a better one.
What do you think?
