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Charlie101 102 Reviews 2406 reads
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Have to ever experienced a sub par performance from a reputable provider who seems to have great reviews?  I am very disappointed.  Saw a lady today who I will write a full review about later.  Not a bait and switch but far far less then what I expected.  What I thought was a can't miss turned into a big miss.  Very disappointed and frustrated.  Any advice other then I took one for the team or maybe it was a YMMV.


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LamontCranston692354 reads

Sorry to hear about that, Hey she could be having an off day. If she was, she should have call the appointment off.
As for reviews there has been many post on here about them. Do some guy write great reviews for a lady who wasn't that great just not to get on her good side or a favor down the road. Yes that has happened before, or maybe the guy wrote a good review to make sure he wasn't trashed on the provider board.

The only advice I can think of is to check out the reviews of the girl and see who wrote them. Send a PM to a couple of the reviews and ask them a few questions on their reviews.

If not, then it's back to TOFTT or YMMV.

Just my



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DT_lover1459 reads

I’ve had some agency experience where the girl is a dud.  Called the agency right away and got a break on a future visit with a different girl.  Did not write the review.  The girl is sent home and quietly disappears from the agency gallery.

The situation with an indi is more complex, as a positive outcome requires you both to want to see each other again.  It seems like you are still willing to see her.  Assuming she is still willing to see you…you could skip the review for now, see her some time in the future, and she may give you an extended visit.  Lots of “ifs” in there, as nothing if guaranteed.  Be patient.  Assuming you do see her again, you could write about both experiences in the same review.

I’ve also had a few disappointments where I did not write the review and just accepted the loss...felt the girl made an honest effort.  Actually felt sorry for a few girls who were obviously in tough situations back in my Craigslist days.

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Charlie1011353 reads

Thanks for your advice.  I will not be seeing this lady again.  I do my research well.  I have been thrown for a loop as they say.  Never expected such bad service from this provider.  Makes me wonder if I can trust reviews in the future.  She liked me and I liked her.  I was polite and clean.  Had nothing to do with bad chemistry.  Just bad service.  If it was at Macys I would ask for my money back.  Ain't gonna happen however.  It stings but I will get over it.

Thanks again

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bigredcar1647 reads

I feel your pain. I had a similar situation last month. A lady with all 9's so I booked 3 hours. I could not wait to get the heck out of there. She talked and talked and talked for what seemed to be forever, then tried to get me to take her to dinner (not extra free time and this was not in the plans that we had made). The performance was short and sweet and a 5 or 6 at best.

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Phadrus001526 reads

Interesting Post and I would like to add a corollary question.  I booked some time with a very highly rated provider for this Friday just passed well in advance (over a week actually) and took care of the screening etc.  Got confirmation from the provider and felt I was all set.  Did not get location info the night before and had to call and email the provider as the time of the appt came and went.  Finally about 1/2 afterwards I got a note that we will have to reschedule.

Now crap happens BUT it seems poor form to not let the client know in advance that the appointment is a no go.  Here comes the question..  Do you submit a mini-review and alert the community of the situation or do you play it cool like and hope it was a bad day for the provider?

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WickJohn1344 reads

Such a slippery slope we travel.
While I feel bad for your encounter, I feel equally bad about your predicament, ie to post a review or not.
If you are are anything like me, you feel an obligation to let your brothers know about this painful exp.
With that said , depending on the provider, you must also worry about the provider only board ( to say the least) as well as black list if you post a very neg review.

Good luck.

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Dead_end_gone862 reads

Damn, does that not defeat the whole purpose of this board. The review should be posted as such with all truth and honesty. I was in a similar situation with a provider who is now the "mouth of the south on these boards" (IMHO). I was a newbie so to speak when I saw her, but I went based on the few reviews she had at the time and numerous phone conversations, set up an extended visit(1 hour is probably when she is at her best) and it was frekin' terrible sexually. I think we went past her bedtime on our night out on the town, and nothing in the morning offered. You live and you learn, did I write a review, you ask ? No because I looked at it just that way, fear of retribution at that time...but NEVER again. Like an umpire in baseball "I call 'em like I see 'em". I am sure it goes both ways for provider and hobbyist,you take it from whence it comes. I am sure when a provider gets a less than stellar review, she tries to defend herself out of pride and vents her own way.(and I have seen that also). So unless WE are all honest with the reviews, IMHO it defeats the system in place i.e. TER etc.etc. It is not a perfect world, all we have to go on is our honesty and what the experience was honestly like for both. So don't live your life in fear of retribution, write the review so others can make their own decision, but at least know that the potential poor performance exists. Just think how many others may of had this poor experience and did not write about it and what it would of saved you or I for that matter.

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WickJohn2382 reads

Agree with all you say, but be careful where you step. To quote:

"You live and you learn, did I write a review, you ask ? No because I looked at it just that way, fear of retribution at that time"

So to be fair, instead of a review, lets just have a name.That way your post will mean so much more.

BTW: The red scowls always get me going!

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DT_lover1829 reads

A bad review is the "final answer" in a situation that cannot be saved.  It definitely hurts the girl, no matter how many good reviews she has.  But too many bad reviews in your list, and it may begin to appear the problem is with you.

This situation is very different from scam or bait-switch or fake pics...where the info should be reported immediately.

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bballs1279 reads

it would also help us to know her name

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crystalforfun1270 reads

It's really sad that guys are afraid to write a bad review for bad service.  You are doing the hobbyist of Boston a disservice and throwing your money away.  Camille is absolutely right that the girl should have stopped the session if things were not ok with her or canceled and then you could have bitched about that.  Personally I would rather have someone said I canceled an appointment than not deliver as promised so to speak.   She may have let you down but if you do nothing then you let the Boston hobbyist down.

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Hardbiker672031 reads

A few years ago i saw a very, very well reviewed lady from a local agency and had a horrendous experience. Needless to say i posted a truthful review and proceeded to get my ass handed to me on this very board. In the years since i have not written ANY reviews because i always had to wonder if it was that bad on this board, what was it like on the provider board??? As i had said in the review she clearly wasn't into me and thats her choice, not everyone is going to have the same experience with the same woman. If i were you i would chalk it up to experience and move on, there are many many choices here in Boston. Write the review if you think you must, just try not to be as brutally honest as i was. You just may live to regret that decision!!!   Just my .02.

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A.Fedor834 reads

Sorry to hear. Each person's experience can be different and sometimes people don't mesh. I hope your next experience is better.

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padd1530 reads

It happens,best thing to do is not book again and move on.

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