Wife and I are getting a hotel later and (still going back and forth) possibly a companion for a little fun on our night without the kids in the big city. However, it seems as though it's very difficult to find a companion who fits mostly because (as you might imagine) we have very specific things we are interested in, and they don't fall into the typical realm of what would be requested from a provider (sure sure, that's vague - intentionally; keep in mind we're married, newbs, and nervous about something like this anyway). Just looking for what the best way of communicating our rules, and wants without getting into that ugly area of "words you can't say."
As a side note, very few women actually indicate whether they are comfortable seeing a couple; just throwing out a suggestion that it might help steer additional market forces to the appropriate actors if that were clearer.
So, you will not get a 100% guarantee that whatever monkey-shines you have in mind will be honored once you are BCDs, but I would suggest that in searching for providers who will see couples sight unseen (Also as you point out, a tricky proposition.), that you emphasize the term "open minded", so that whatever daring gal does take up your challenge knows to expect the unexpected. It will be an arduous search.
I have another suggestion which will require that your spouse herself be rather open minded, to wit:
Suggest to her that you go off and do one on one encounters with gals who are couple friendly already, and then once you are BCDs with them, you suggest the specific perversions you have in mind, thus narrowing the search to those who are open to your needs.
Obviously, there are not many spouses who will relish this, but perhaps if you are open with her and she sees the expedience of this, she will acquiesce. Just a thought, anyways.
That's only a small piece of the puzzle, but hope it helps. If you are serious about doing this you should spend time reading different girls reviews until you find one that seems to your liking before calling to screen. This will take time, but doing your homework in advance pays off. I consider reading reviews a pleasure not a burden anyway.
Eros lists girls who are comfortable with couples, on their main menu as well as on girls' profiles pages. Definitely read through some reviews on TER too if you see any girls you like - you may not find one who specifically mentions couples, but if you find reviews for ladies who seem to be more open minded than your average lady, you might be on to something. Failing that, just emailing some ladies saying you are a couple might be your way in; most ladies that seen couples are aware that the couple might have some sort of role-play or other in mind, and once you're screened you can discuss it all.
I specifically list on my site that I am "Couple Friendly," and that I absolutely love introducing woman to the wonderful erotic world of girl/girl and/or couple play. I as well cater the fetishes/ fantasies. I go into the city from time to time and if I know well in advance I have gone into the city specifically just to see individuals and couples who like to indulge themselves on "Special Occasions" such as anniversaries, birthdays, Valentine's Day or just to celebrate each other.
Unfortunately it looks like your attempt to purchase VIP membership has failed due to your card being declined. Good news is that we have several other payment options that you could try.
VIP MEMBER
, you are now a VIP member!
We thank you for your purchase!
VIP MEMBER
, Thank you for becoming VIP member!
Membership should be activated shortly. You'll receive notification!
