I saw a highly reviewed independent  provider last week. When I spoke to her on the phone, she was coherent. When I arrived about an hour later, she was a disaster. The worst experience I have had in this hobby. I am a fair reviewer and I have not posted reviews on some well reviewed women I have seen. Sometimes the connection was not there or she was having an off day. This was not the case. If I post a review, I can be accused of posting a false review because my review would not be close to what other reviewers have experienced. Should I just let it go and hope other hobbyists don't get burned ? I would like some opinions from hobbyists and especially the ladies. Thanks.

Experiance with that provider post a review that would have warned you

I sent you a pm but I want to post this here so no one will accuse you of sour    grapes  I had a similar situation with the same provider except I never even got to the room. I've had other people pm me stating they had similar experiences with her also.

Thanks. I am leaning towards posting the review.

That is the whole point of reviewing. You seem like a fair minded individual, so you can add all the appropriate "caveats" that can explain the disaster.

You and I have communicated before and I have used and appreciated your advise and suggestions.  I hope you have done the same with mine.  

you will have another PM to answer

you have a lot of great experiences.  That means You probably avoided disasters from honest feedback of others, I know I probably have and thank those that piste less than stellar reviews.  I think you should (need) to post in fairness in order to pay it back.

More and more are asking you to review!!!

Don't bother, you'll get murdered for it, called a liar, blacklisted by her, etc. I remember years ago a prominent indy had a review where she was drinking during the appointment. The guy got flayed alive for it even though it was true. This is no place for bad news anymore, it's an advertising board. Save yourself the headaches and talk about back channel, not in public.

TEA (The Erotic Ad.  Much of the purpose of the site are the reviews.  If they are all good there is no use to the sites stated main purpose.

I think a truthful review of your experience can only help the situation.  Your reputation speaks for itself with 150 reviews and all of your white lists.  If this has happened to others it should've been noted before.  Also if she reads her reviews it may help her in the future.  Reaching out to her would help too and is something you may want to add to the review.

Don't take advice from cowardly pussies.

If it's an honest review, you won't suffer any repurcussions for it.  I posted a 7/2 review of a provider who is currently rated at 8.81/8.17 (check my reviews).  It was an honest review, accurately describing my session with her.
I never got any negative feedback.  I was providing good information, which is really the purpose of this board.

Review has been submitted. Just waiting for it be posted

Exactly

That's what it's supposed to be, but we've seen it before, there'll be an hysterical denial posted, a blizzard of white knight posts in her defense, lots of accusations of a personal vendetta on his part and in the end it'll probably be pulled down anyway with most guys thinking he made it up anyway. The last guy who reported getting ripped off got outed on-line and the provider is still quite active on here

Bob if it's the same person I'm thinking of. She didn't out him for posting a bad review. It was something completely different.

I doubt it however.  I also believe we can either give out honest information through reviews and pms or the board is useless for providing an good information.

Well here comes the negative feedback....I just read your post on the lady of the 7/2 review. Your post unfortunately looks too vindictive and the reviewer that you reference has only ONE review and it is a 7/2, which although coincidental looks like someone trying to double post a bad review to hurt the provider or just looks foolish.  

My review clearly states that she agreed ahead of time to DFK and bbbj, so it's not "my bad."  And if you had bothered to do a little research (since you're so interested in defending this hooker), you would have found that she advertises herself as providing GFE and BDSM.
If you think the review is vindictive, then you have led a sheltered life, my friend.  Why on earth would I single her out for a negative review when I have awarded other ladies 10s, 9s and 8s?
Maybe you're too much of a pussy to post a negative review yourself.  Or any reviews, for that matter. You even posted this under an alias.  

If we all held back on bad reviews what would be the point of posting . If you have a bad experience then save someone else the misery of the same experience.

With your review history you certainly have a heck of a lot of weight on this board, so it might be on her best interest, specially if she's also highly reviewed.  We all have off days, and do-over doesn't necessarily have to be free, and I would not advocate for such (otherwise, that's plain blackmailing), but I would leave it up to her as to how to make it up. We have nothing but our reputations on this board, and that's very precious and easy to lose, so if you both are high up in the industry, I think you both should give each other a second chance.

I would wager dollars to donuts that every time a person thought they were getting a GFE or BBBJ and didn't even though they "agreed" still didn't translate to a 2.  Or perhaps:

not to know what a 2 rating represents. It means  "I should have stayed at home."   Which is exactly what I should have done.  Hence the 2 rating.  Get it?  
So, are you saying that you would have stayed and accepted whatever this hooker was willing to give you?  Is that the way you lead your poor life, agreeing to something, settling for less, and taking it lying down?  I feel sorry for you, my friend.

Plenty of us Sober Cobra's are available last minute and coulda used that appt money !. lol.
 next time turn around and walk out. Then call me from the car. I am always available last minute .
            And I dont drink OR smoke cigarettes .
 Next time dont stay and endure a bad time. Then you wont feel resentful and some one else can get that money you work hard for that deserves it and is ok with last minute appts.
                  I am a girl and I been there, been drunk made mistakes acted the fool. Which is why I DONT drink now. duh.
I d have to say contact her . Tell her your gonna right a bad review. You feel ripped off.  
            See if she offers a free make up session to make it up to you. Then do whatever you feel is right and worth it to you, I know on my yelp I only give good reviews. If they suck I just dont say anything at all.  
   You should do whatever you want not what we want you get your free vip fair n square and it is your choice in the end.  
                 I d say shouldve left and called me. I do last minute and there is no chances of you showing up to find a drunk angel because i been there done that and KNOW I dont handle booze either like this girl. She is gonna just have to come to that realization and stop it forever and altogether. .......................................................

angel with all your appt's, you mean to tell me you never had one where you were not ready, or you might have been drink yourself or hung over and it impacted the app't???? just asking...

I see that you posted the review and good for you.

I am defending her hun , Re read my post third indent down ,  
     I stated "I been there."  
and then mention he give her a chance for a maybe less sloppy re do.  
                              No one is sayin they havent been there, That never came out my mouth in fact i stated I HAVE been there, and am trying to offer an alternative to him ruining her career. with a shitty mean review.
                     And if you pay for an hour then get a ten min quick bj then kicked out. Offering a second meeting to correct the situation IS BY NO MEANS offering a FREE apt.
                      he claims he got a ten sec, quick bj. The atmosphere was uncomfortable.  
 So if he got ten min of service and paid for an hour of gfe,  
 How might i ask is offering a second meeting, To finish the remaining time he didnt even get at first meeting, that isnt offering a FREE date.
 And for me , I d prefer a second meeting, to re do it, than to recieve a terrible review like he gave her.  
                 I was on her side and i stated "I BEEN THERE." so re read my post !
the iq of some these people amazes me. How can you not have grasped what i typed ? oh my god. weirdo.

Now I know you and you are Not one to be mean or spiteful. I feel your review was honest and not hurtful.
Now if she is in trouble then i say we all need a lil compassion. Addiction is a sad downward spiral.
Write the review and others read it... Yet we dont know what her deamons are..we all have them.
say a prayer for her but lets not speculate her path. That for all of us is forever changing and subject to change daily.

I wish her the best shes in my prayers

Very good perception

Nicole, one of the most respected members of our community, said it best. We all need a little compassion. As far as I am concerned this thread is done. I started it and I will finish it. Happy New Year to all.

Perhaps you should email the gal saying something along the lines of…" I chose you because of, was disappointed because of…. Before I write a review of… anything you'd like to share/add about…"

Ppl were very kind to me I came back too soon, but you just don't know that til you're knee deep in it.

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Unfortunately this event isn't about a bad day or bad session it's about demons getting the better of her .  She needs to work  these things out first then maybe she can make amends until then it's anyones guess .  

I'm happy you reviewed her when you did as I was just about to go see her mostly based on all the great reviews she had. You could almost see the pattern as the review before yours was mediocre at best. Plus the first question that came to my mind was why was this girl charging $400 in Boston and getting fabulous reviews then all of a sudden she is back in RI charging as little as $100 in some of her ads on BP?

I mean doesnt that at least deserve like better than a 2? a bj is a bj, it may not be like pse perfection that day like he wated but even just the simple fact you stick a dick in your mouth, cbj OR bbj, that should warrant better than a 2 performance.  

Get ready for fireworks again.

I agree.  Take a fuckin shower.  How would you like to eat out a dirty pussy.  Hobbying 101.