Obviously, if you were able to find a willing hobbyist who would barter services for services, it would be a win-win for you both. I would suggest pursuing that. In reference to your frustration over incomplete information, if you could have that potential assistant lock your form that it rejects back to the client or refuses to send unless all information is correct, this might help. The fields would have to be setup to expect a certain format (eg: email, 10 digit phone number, time and date) or the form would not send. I wish I was this talented but I'm not and I don't know anyone to refer but maybe someone might chime in here. You also might want to troll elsewhere too (CL, BP, provider boards, etc.) just to try and find person who is willing.
Happy New Year to you, been a long while and hope all is well. Try to glean your information and not fall into the infamous flames so abhorrent on this board. Some just like to poke from behind a veil.
F
Hi every one. I am perplexed.
I have a template for my date reservations that contact me via pm, with no way for me to screen.
it is a master copy which read, Hi blank I fill it in. Thank you for contacting me, Please fill out my reservation form and i am looking forward to meeting, or something to that effect.
I have tried to use the potential new friend s alias as a means of screening. However when I contact a lady they review as of late stating Hi have you met "hot guy 69" he reviewed you dec 2013. thank you- ang
Obviuosly its not really going to work .
Then i have guys that dont want to give name on form. Most ladies will give a referal on just the mans email and number.
At least a form with a number and email for screening is helpful. Most use fake real and last name, simply for assisting the screening process and all.
I have been typing all week. I had to take a rest for a day as my fore arms were tapping out on me. Then had computer issue and was trying to just use kindle as sole communication source. With two deformed pinkies from two separate freak accident as child. That i am not able to bend and have very limited mobility in as well as terrible pains still. My parents from the old school and you know you old timers. One only goes hospital when and if a limb is severed and your bleeding to death so no. I never got them set and they continued to grow horribly askew. Factor in my ten inch acrylic nails. The difficulty in excessive typing to attempt to retrieve the information requested in my form.
So far i had 15 date request roll in. Most from people i been trying to retrieve proper referencing info from for months. Others i am still having to respond back to thier reservation to request the second referall. Of which i recieve a name and some thing other than number and web address. leading me again either to have to again type back requesting a third time proper info. Or the latter go on a wild goose chase to find info. Often times they provide a link to an add site off which i cant hunt down the lady in question. or a number of which i have to locate and cross reference email .
Do you think its possible men whom been reviewing for ten years with review back to 2006, sincerely arent grasping my reservation form or screening process?
i am wondering what is going on. I clearly state above the form incomplete forms will not be dealt with first.
on that note here i am making my announcement now to avoid any further confusion with my potential new friends. I will have to repeat what is clearly written in the text above form, which you cannot help but read as its included on form.
I dont want the guys to do what they will which is turn around and say i am difficult to get a hold of ect ect.
Guys if you make it a week long project to retrieve the nessisary info to screen. i have to just log off and answer the calls from regulars. Sorry. So my message in advance. I am not hard to get hold off. But it states i only see 2-3 new gents a month. i d see more if Theyd co operate and not make me have to message back to re request info on form, Only to recieve again mis information, no email of lady, no link to her site. Its also tough when i hqve seven emails to keep track of screening the one guy. It can get hairy guys with 30 different potential client doing the rigamarue to get to end result. Me retrieving the things i ask for on form.
I really need to get my rent for dec and my cell phone back on. But itsd not possible for me to screen any one at this time.
Can i get feedback on trouble shooting here?
I have a rent that 1700, plus utility I wanna save for things but cant. Re applying to p411 and dc isnt an option , i am not able to keep up with the fees and time it consume to update photos on web sites , as well as 4 to five different accounts. Its just not working out for me to attempt to do that.
ou are on the very top of my list. I had an appt with you three seperate times and each time you bailed. All for different reasons of course and the drama was overwhelming. Having said that I would stll love to see you! It's not just us who are difficult. Angel is Exotic!
I have seen angel. And she is quite a bundle. But she's also worth the effort. Hot, sexy, complicated. The real deal.
One guy use one provider ref only, forcing me to use my last resort method of some slight reassurance by intelus thier email name age cell, just to see i a facebook or real person exist that name. It states above my form incomplete form are going to tke me longer. Where i want to get mycell back on and my rent, i have to sometmes put the incomplete forms last priority.i opened email tonight to read a disgruntled man after i failed to screen him in less than 24 hours.I am not shy about announcing on moe than one occasion I have fibro, my dam arms tap out for no apparent reason mid emails . It not something in my dam control. Iam clear in communicating low volume three new per month.on web site. I am so glad for the screenin I miss out on the impatient selfish clientelle thier true colors show when they completely like lose it and flip out on me before we even meet. I obviously am doing my best so if they get angry fuck em. In fact i am again loggin off here and out of my emil and will stick to my regulars again. Totally turned off. I have 20 reservation not one even remotely completeform. Not one. At this rate i will be sitting on my ass screening for the whole week . No offense to any one, but i am not responding to any forms. Just a heads up to so far the 25 forms with totally vague info. Fuck it. Omg .
Sorry angel, couldn't resist. However, I think you are definitely one of those gals who could benefit from an (real) assistant.
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I know . Thats the answer .cool. ok. To every problem there solution. I gotta go hit up bb.
I was pleased to see that you are in Boston (and so am I)..I was thinking P411.. but you don't want to do that.. I agree.. a real assistant would be a great help..
I know of one young provider, who, like you, is gorgeous.. she works with an older (like maybe late 30's? ) veteran who helps her out , shares her assistant and provides a great incall for a percentage.. that seems like something that would simplify your life a lot..
Can you please pm me the assistant info.
I know of one young provider, who, like you, is gorgeous.. she works with an older (like maybe late 30's? ) veteran who helps her out , shares her assistant and provides a great incall for a percentage.. that seems like something that would simplify your life a lot..
After reading everything in the post including remembering some back posts I would strongly recommend you hire someone to handle this end of your business affairs. Obviously from every thing I read your excellent at being a provider but not at the paperwork end of things. So do what your the best at and have someone else take care of the rest. A hell of a lot less Drama!
it may make your life much easier if you hire an assistant, or work with an agency. I know many potential clients can be very difficult because they either refuse to provide the necessary information, or try to lie about it. I generally end up turning away 75% of my potential clients because they don't pass screening for one reason or another. It's just not worth taking a chance these days in my opinion.
xoxo
Nyx
its like pulling teeth.
you have to practically beg for each piece of info and track down websites...
I am to the point where I tell them what I need and that without all the info we can go no further.
I too will rather pass on someone being difficult to screen
theres a difference between those who have no experience here and those trying to get in under the wire with as little info as possible. Those ppl I just pass on at this point, its a waste of my time when there are plenty who have all the info and willing to hand it over.
I agree there are plenty of Ladies who screen in this biz and could get this all straightened out for you...BUT Angel, you need to be accountable no more disappearing act, showing up on time, being reliable, no drugs no BS.
If you want someone professional to take you seriously and put themselves out for you, you have to be a good risk.
When a booker sets up an apt for you if you flake you are taking her reputation with you.
Its more headaches than most will take on.
So I agree you are a hottie but you need to be professional too and reliable and someone will be willing to back you up.
I wish you the best of luck!
Nicole
I agree with Angel ,yes it s frustrating dealing with a lot amount of e-mail, replying, screening etc.
But I do agree 100% with the ladies specially Nicole statement. They all giving you good advice.
In my opinion you should keep your regulars and screen, book the ones you feel (comfortable) with.
Im very new with being an indy and still learning. but it took me 2 years to do all my research and build a client base just not only here in Boston but in NYC also, but still have the need to advertise sometimes just to feel part of this community.
One of the thing I learn-If they have a major interest in you, they really like you and feel very comfortable with you they will open up and will give all information you need for screening.
Good luck Preciosa !!!
( English is not my first language so apologies for the grammar
Obviously, if you were able to find a willing hobbyist who would barter services for services, it would be a win-win for you both. I would suggest pursuing that. In reference to your frustration over incomplete information, if you could have that potential assistant lock your form that it rejects back to the client or refuses to send unless all information is correct, this might help. The fields would have to be setup to expect a certain format (eg: email, 10 digit phone number, time and date) or the form would not send. I wish I was this talented but I'm not and I don't know anyone to refer but maybe someone might chime in here. You also might want to troll elsewhere too (CL, BP, provider boards, etc.) just to try and find person who is willing.
Happy New Year to you, been a long while and hope all is well. Try to glean your information and not fall into the infamous flames so abhorrent on this board. Some just like to poke from behind a veil.
F
for the most part the services are difficult to set clear fairness both sides getting what they want its not a good idea in this biz.
I guess it could work for some but most feel one side got a deal and the other got screwed...more or less.
Absolutely agree with Nicole, you are better off maybe asking another provider to share asst. and the cost. This way everyone is doing what they do best and being fairly compensated for it.