I was lurking around and found a provider with 68 pages of reviews going back to 2000. So I started reading them and in almost all of the 30 some odd reviews I read she swallowed the pop at least once if not twice. My question if she has 680 reviews stating swallowing how many other times has she accepted the deposit and it was not reported here or any place else? In other words not all guys review. This is my question she is as healthy as an ox and in great shape so why are girls afraid to give BBBJ even if they do not accept the pop? Chime in please....
Its all a matter of choice...simple as that.
You guessing someone who takes more risks than others are willing to, is healthy is a pile of crap.
I tell you what...you swallow and then I will...
no actually Im not sorry,
I thought everybody knew who I was and usually only use this alias when someone asks a really stupid question.
Its quite clear your logic is erection based. In other words your logic... so to speak, is bias and only a guy would think like that. its an *i want what I want* additude.
theres no common sense involved.
anyone can see more risky behavior leads to more risk
anyone can also see that its impossable to determine someones health by just looking at them
but you want what you want so you are playing stupid in hopes to get it. OR you are stupid and if thats the case thats really sad for you.
Nicole Kelly
see there you have it...i maned up.
Have you ever heard of STD's ? I believe that some providers may simply more careful with their health than others. STD's are transmitted by vaginal sex, anal sex, and oral sex. Condoms reduce the risk and obviously not using condoms increases the risk. Uncovered oral sex is less of a risk for STD transmission than uncovered vaginal sex, but nonetheless there is risk. If you do a little research on the internet with the CDC and STD Testing sites you will see that it is a fact that STD's are commonly transmitted through uncovered oral sex. I have discussed this with several MD's and they all agreed that it is very possible for STD's to be transmitted through uncovered oral sex.
In addition the business is very competitive and in my opinion there is a lot of pressure for providers to take the risk and provide uncovered oral.
....most men WANT uncovered BJ's and a percentage want BBFS as well ~ obviously the latter is redundant and completely stupid to those who do it (did you know that HIV can stay in your body for 2 months without you even knowing it?) Due Diligence is very important regarding STD protection. If you choose providers that do not have a reputation, who have low scores and low donations - watch out! It makes more sense to put out a bit more of a donation and know that the Provider you are seeing has a great reputation over 20 reviews. Taking chances is probably not a good choice for BBBJ's if you feel that the provider isn't clean and respectable of her surroundings as well. Just my two cents.....xooxoxox Chloe
In addition the business is very competitive and in my opinion there is a lot of pressure for providers to take the risk and provide uncovered oral.
You pose the question as if its completely preposterous.
I had a girlfriend a few years ago (a highly regarded East Coast provider, now retired) who contracted chlamydia in her throat through performing BBBJ.
She was treated...but she felt completely mortified and humiliated by the experience.
HIV & STDs are not a myth.
We all accept levels of risk.
Personally, I've routinely tested clean for several years so I am comfortable with my practices and the amount of risk I accept. That doesn't mean that my practices haven't been modified over the years or that I'm not attentive to my body or cognizant of the possibilities.
But I think its much too easy to become complacent and say things like "well she's swallowed 10,000k loads over the years and she's just fine, why is there such a thing as CBJ?" lol.
We don't know what complications she has suffered, what she has had treated or the state of her health.
I perform BBBJ because I like it.
My experiences with my health tell me that it is a relatively low risk activity in the manner in which I practice it and the demographic that I practice it on.
But I don't scoff at anyone who practices CBJ because sexual activity with volumes of strangers is risky behavior.
You have to go into it reasonably educated and unwilling to compromise or waiver on your personal comfort level whatever that may be.
Being competitive and doing it because everyone else does it is not a reason to provide a service.
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This tidbit... whether many gents realize it or not many of us assess our risk very carefully and that's why some things such as swallowing maybe ymmv in certain cases. We do not ask you to shower, and scrub well because we are chewing up clock time but because we are very aware of minimizing our risk. That being said, some gents may be asked to don a raincoat if it is deemed necessary during a bj. I don't like doing that, I prefer bbbj but I have had a few very drippy gents who either had a bad diet or just funky spunk that I couldn't err..swallow. Pun intended but try to make it pleasurable for us as well.
There are some very awful antibiotic resistant strains of std's that are making there way into our hobby. Gonorrhea being on of them which I certainly do not want. We all have to be aware and very responsible in proactively preventing issues before they happen. I am extremely hygienic and expect the same from my partners, that includes regular testing and utilizing safer practices while still having a hell of a good time.
Nobody is saying don't have fun, just make sure you are performing due diligence and expect the same.
Cheers.
Grace
"I had a girlfriend a few years ago (a highly regarded East Coast provider, now retired) who contracted chlamydia in her throat through performing BBBJ." -Ally
What if she had offered Deep Throat on some of those performances? So, I ask: might a provider be more at risk of chlamydia from DTBBBJNQ(NS if applicable) compared to simple BBBJNQNS? Think about it. Just asking.
Is there a doctor in the thread?
I would say yes. Logic would say that if the DT was rough, there is more chance of scratching the throat, hence more chance of a path for infection.
What if she had offered Deep Throat on some of those performances? So, I ask: might a provider be more at risk of chlamydia from DTBBBJNQ(NS if applicable) compared to simple BBBJNQNS? Think about it. Just asking.
Is there a doctor in the thread?
Agreed and well said, Ally. I would only add (as if it needs saying) that the recipient of oral sex is at demonstrably more risk of an STD than the giver, especially if it's BBBJ with CIM. And although certain precautions can in theory minimize the odds of catching an orally transmitted STD, there is no way (short of, say, a Q-tip culture) to tell whether a guy has an STD before performing oral on him. The presence of discharge may very well suggest an STD such as gonorrhea, but the absence of drip or order could simply mean that the fellow is in the asymptomatic period of infection (for most guys symptoms show up within a week, but for some it can take up to a month). If oral is performed on (for the sake of example) twenty-five guys over the course of a couple of weeks, and half of those guys have an STD, the odds are actually all of them, every single one of them, being symptomatic; some of the men will simply not be symptomatic, and some of them will be capable of transmitting the infection nonetheless. It's a relatively low risk activity compared to unprotected intercourse (for a variety of reasons), but compared to CBJ or BBBJ without CIM it's a very very high risk activity. A couple of years ago, a pretty demure and prim gal pal of mine went out on a man-binge following a break-up with her long-time lover, and over that one lost, wild weekend, she had a grand total of two one-night stands. She performed unprotected oral on a fellow she met at a bar frequented by professionals, she did not swallow but spat, and she still caught GC from one of those two fellows. I think the question most of the TER dudes are interested in -- for selfish reasons -- is, What are the odds of catching an STD from a provider who offers BBBJ to other dudes? There are a host of answers to this question that can be easily researched on the web, but the short answer is that the risk is very, very low unless there are sores visible on the provider's lips or there are other indicia of unusually high transmissibility (such as red gums suggesting gums that easily bleed).
Or to be brief about it: For the guy it's a risk and although it's a small one it's a very real one if you're the guy who brings home an STD to your significant other.