For those of you who know me, you know I have, nor ever had any kind of agendas. While sometimes getting inadvertantly embroiled in some tense moments, my intentions have never been to manipulate and flame or otherwise cause anyone ill will. Yes, I am sometimes a bit off the wall, and for over three years did not see anyone so spoke basicly out of inexperience. That recently changed with a lovely encounter with a very sweet provider.

As you can see further down the page, I recently responded to a thread in which I speculated that Hott Stacey had retired. This was based on things I had read on the boards after her recent departure from the scene. I added an addendum to that post yesterday after receiving an email from someone claiming to be her friend whose info led me to repost and recant what I said.

This morning, I was reading the other board in Connecticut where she has very emphatically posted that she is retired, in part due to the games and agendas people have, which by the way, was brought to my attention by the person emailing me, but whose contention was that she wished to maintain a low profile but very much needed and wanted to work. While I had never seen Stacey, I remember when she first appeared on the scene and watched her journey through the hobby. Because I did not want to cause her undue loss of business, I made that subsequent post. Now, the individual who emailed me, the friend, claimed to be a hobbyist, but non-posting lurker when I informed him I was not familiar with who he was.

My final word. First, Hott Stacey, my best to you as you go on through life. I wish you all the success in the world. My intentions were to be sure I did not cause you harm. To the gentlemen who emailed me, who will remain nameless, I will delete any further communication from you. I feel that somehow I may have unknownly been manipulated for some reason. Realistically, I know it is part of life and much of it goes on in the hobby on both sides of the aisle, but I will not be used to further anyones agendas.

Play safe folks, and respect each other.........OMR

What I find confusing is why you are concerned with whether she is retired or active?  Why you feel you had to post about this matter if she didn't ask you to?  We should all stay in our own sandbox.  My .o2

OMR did nothing wrong...someone mentioned that they hadn't seen a post from stacey in a while and he posted that he thought she retired.  Where is the harm here?  There is none.  I'm not quite sure why he is pissed off but this board is about the exchange of information, good and bad, wanted and unwanted.  If you put yourself out as a provider and use these boards to advertise you should expect that hobbyists may continue to talk about you after you've retired.  Is it fair?  I don't know but that is the way it works.

Maybe we should take a collection for her retirement account in case she has not milked this hobby for all it is worth and do not forget her shameless scam two years ago when schills posted on her behalf for contributions for her in an account of an automobile accident.

I thought I was the only one who remembered that incident....I wish my johnson were as long as my memory sometimes.

Can't you all give it a rest?
She stated quite plainly in January that she was retired and again yesterday. Do the reasons matter? Dredging the past only confirms that she made the right decision.
Move on!

This thread was never intended to be a Stacey bashing thread. My point in posting it was that I felt someone had used me to maybe cause her some undue pressure, but implying that my original post below had negatively affected her business as she was not retired. The retraction I posted, I have removed, at her request as she IS RETIRED. As stated before, I never met her, and yes, she has been controversial at time. It is done and over. Let the lady move on to new goals and dreams and I wish her nothing but the best.....OMR

1) Everything posted here is total hearsay

2) Always look at rule #1 when reading a post

3) If you read a post that says "I believe" or "I think" or "I thought" or ... then it is probably the poster remembering what he/she remembers and nothing more.  Saying something like that is not wrong at all, since it is adding information that was not previously available.

OMR, you were certainly not out of line (In my opinion), to post a message that you believed that she had retired.  If she has, then that is a datapoint that all can use to determine whether it is true or not.  If it is not, and she sees it, Stacy certainly has the right (if she desires) to respond with a post refuting that fact.  Furthermore, the person who sent email to you could have easily posted a response to your post saying that she had not retired.

If we try to stifle all speculation and any speculative information on this board, then it becomes useless to everybody.

Everybody reads the messages posted here with different viewpoints, and something posted my myself that I process in one way will be interpreted in a completely different way by someone else.  That is human nature.

One more thing...  I have known women who are or have "retired" but that was from seeing new people.  They still see the people that they have seen before, but not new customers.  Every single woman has the right and privelage to see anybody that see wants.  If she wishes to say publically that she is retired, but still sees people that she has seen before, that is certainly within her right.

That is why I "luv_women"

Of course, this is totally my opinion and not the opinions of anybody else.

-- Modified on 4/16/2004 6:48:22 AM

Dear OMR,
    Feel free to be confused, but please don't be angry. I don't think the communication you got was so far off the mark, but the latest info you read seems to have put the matter to rest. This is a business with more head fakes, revivals, reincarnations, whispers and petty intrigues than a Mexican soap opera. This board has more going for it, than the other one, for many various reasons. Just try to have a good time and let the other stuff sort itself out...
    BTW, never heard about the auto accident story! If I ever break my leg I'll have to check out the back issues for fun...
                                    gnwvip