still on. A confirmation email night before and a phone confirmation four hours before day of is my method. Double check also if you majorly broke any her etiqueette requests. I know some guys will think I disapeared but if i am swore at, or vulgar language . {one guy emailed me yesterday, i clearly have a signature with every outgoing email telling them i am not able to have alot of dialogue after we book the session, I get alot of the guys they book then they will send me like 8 consequetive emails after. i wont see them til i log back in later i am like whoa! wow! so he wants me to come for an hour tonight, and chat on email for 3 hours in afternoon of session? so this guy yesterday books then I say cant talk til then will call to confirm 4 hours before then before i depart my apt. I log off and have company for 2 hours and do some laundry . I then see he has sent me 6 links to porno s he wants me to apparently spend my saturday viewing before i go to his hotel. Then the emails were getting progressively weird. One email said i want you to suffocate me with a plastic bag so bad its like your doing it to be paid to make a snuff film for 15 grand by one your clients. As in me suffocating him to close to asphyxiation brink. !!!!
For me if they dont read my etiqueete thier bad. I dont deal with being expected to have a vulgar email dialogue for my entire afternoon leading up to an appt,. And thats simply for the simple fact those are always the ones that are a problem or fakes or time wasters, most ladies have that as a rule . I then didnt respons to him til late at night and again about 5 more emails piles up atop all the 6 seperate emails linking to porns.
Oh did i scare you? I will pay more!Q
I obviously have some experience in kink and domme like who doesnt or hasnt been requested to play a tad in this way, But if your expecting me to spend my ssaturday studying in hours prior to an appt, or worse hours emailing with you. mThen i need a prepay for those hours of my life your taking that day before appt! No but seriously i will go over whatever requests they have but not til i am on the clock at the appt and have recieved the donation for the time, I have made mistake of spending my personal time chatting it up with potential clients before and its too much . Especially if you spent an hour or more then they cancel, after youve spent alot of time planning the session, Guys dont realize it but we have to have rules for a reason cuz alot of the guys go around calling and emailing ladies just to get off with the dirty talk before appts, Some go and do that and never even get appts. i know some and have managed to meet with them, but the amoubnt of time they try and take in between the tri yearly visits isnt worth it, There is one thats a guy i known since i was 26, the amount of times he has emailed me just to describe the session he wants and the amount of times he would call and talk for ever to me, then say he has no money to get an appt, After i politely flirted and talked for a long time, Over years the amount of my time and energy he has cuked outta me with out ever coming to get appts.
The guys dont realize how many guys will call and do this stuff every week then they dont get appst. Its a fine line to draw though because if a person has come several times, you do wanna to apoint be polite and say hi how are you,
But at some point you have to set boundaries as to how many clients you want calling to chat that arent booking an appt that week or even that month, Unfortunelty it usually hurts thier feelings too when you have to kinda let them know you need them to sorta get to the point when calling. Its too bad cuz i enjoy alot the guys personalities but then when i have to kinda act business like more often than not they either swear insult me or give me a super duper rude attitude. I wish i were a millionaire and could just talk to people every daty and not have to worry about electric bills rent, ect
No one likes that part this job I dont think. mYou act all friendly at the appt, you even want to establish a repoire and be genuine and friendly. But then when there are over 25 guys texting and calling and emailing and pming, and your being polite and chatty back and things, then your like sooooooo, uh, uh, gettn and appt?
and they are like no just calling to see how your doing i dont have any money this week. On my end if i am actually behind or needing to get some bills paid i can get tired from all the guys that are calling and end up only calling to be a friend and say HI. I also have them get really mad when i take a hiatus from the pse greek multiples for 4300 an hour, .. i do that once in a while but couldnt be expected tpo do that day n day out all year, so i periodically will kick back n do massages and not as high volume full service, and oh boy! wow! you should hear the responses, I hear when i tell em gfe is this much for now,
Then when i tell them well i am trying to get appts are you lookin to get appt and scheule, some times they flip out and start making fun of me and say like one this week said "I THOUGHT YOU WERE A REAL PERSON!" I was just calling to see how you are doing, {mind you he only has gotten one massage well over a month ago. }
I would retrack your steps and see what you did to make her not get back to you. I dont explain myself to the guys if they dont follow common sense etiquette i just put them in spam folder or program thier number as BLOCK or b for short. If a guy talks about soliciting sex over email text or phonem, i dont even respond, he gets blocked.
Did you maybe say something rude via email to her ? i know i wont even give them the courtesy to respond if they are being verbally abusive swearing at me rude, or not being understanding when i ask them to book an appt, I am pretty ;laid back about being good to the guys and not a clock watcher but i do need them to still book massages at some point too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!if they flip when i ask i just block em.
as far as my expeience goes there isnt a shortage of horny married men needing a tug and a rub or whatever in boston, Not in my experienc,e my issue is disciplining myself to work when i dont have too so i am not just only workin when a bill is due!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the penis es are all there but i am a space shot most time,s
sorry you got dicthed, i do last minute appts i just cant promise i will be avl, i encourage you to try but, ,, i am sometimes able to swing it,
