A couple of years ago I was dating an extremely successful who thought he was the boss in out interactions. Ya, right! We had a power struggle, I wouldn't take his calls, and when he wanted to come back into my home, I told him he needed to leave the driving to me.
"Stick to the two things your good at," I said. "I got the rest."
"What am I goo at?" he asked.
"F@%cking and making money!" I replied.
It worked for both of us. I began to investigate the dominatrix edge as a biz, and slowly, my skillset has moved towards being very sensual, and very much in control. Having a powerful man bound, blindfolded, his senses heightened and waiting on my next move is a huge turn on for me.
I mastered the Tie and Tease, experimenting with each new playmate, and then did
Bondassage training this spring. Bondassage has proven to be next level for me, and for my play partners.
Adding the ritual of bondage, non-English speaking music pumping through head phones and the sequence of sensual massage and percussion play, both soft and hard, really takes my guys to a new level of sensual submission, and empowers me in ways I never would have thought.
I joke the tie and tease is like a day on the golf course, while bondassage is like a Caribbean vacation.
What's the story of your evolution into sensual domination?
