Assuming BDSM includes fetish, this is probably the best place to ask.

Any recommendations for ladies who are into sensual and play and strap-on play?  It's one of those questions that you're really not supposed to ask ahead of time and often you get disappointed.

I'm not looking for a heavy dom session with this (although I am a BDSM fan at times). Or any sort of simulated anal rape or anything. Not looking for someone to call me names while she rams it in.

I'm looking for a woman who is into it and enjoys it and finds it sexually exciting. Not someone who is just willing to do it. You know?

Does such a person exist? There is no "strap-on" search term in TER reviews.

Any thoughts here?